Starting again. It will be 5 years, July 24th, since I asked him to leave. Have finally started a new realationship with a lovely man who seems to like me alot and I him. The only problem is still not divorced. This has been going on now for 2 years and I can see no end in sight. Am off to see a new solicitor on Monday as my old one does not do legal aid anymore and my old certificate only covered mediation that money is gone now and x has gone back on his word. Mediation not binding what a waste of 2 years to get to this point. Now shall be armed with a level arch file full of documents and letters to take to solicitors and evidence of income and who I am. Why is he doing this? The money he is spending on his solicitor could be better spent on the children. His solicitor is making him do it or so I have been told. As far as I am aware you instruct your solicitor and they are there to advise and carry out your wishes. The longer it goes on for the more money the solicitor will get in the end. This could have been all be over if he had stuck to our agreement, went to mediation to avoid this or so I though. I'm numb now don't care. Shall go for everything I'm entitled to, I've had enough. Have been Mrs Nice and gritted my teeth every time I see him for the past years. Have sat as he has talked about himself for 2 hours a couple of months ago saying how he has missed me and still has feelings for me. Then wham bam I get that letter he'd done it again making me feel sorry for him, no more, going to start fighting.