well I set of last sunday 1t 0400 in the cold and drove the 10 hours to my FMH and supprisingly i was greeted with a smoile and the offer of a cup of tea, Unfortunatley that was the end of pleasentries.
I have done a load of jobs around the house to spruce it up a bit, On the first monday i had to deliver my second form E to her solicitors and collect my stbx copy, That same afternoon she had to visit her solicitor well !!! it was all down hill from the minute she came back to the house and ever since it has been hard to get two words from her accept when was i going back... however this sort of life is not for me because i can stand in a field in scotland and ask the sheep a question and i am more likly to get a answer from the sheep than my ex wife..
I have been very lucky to have been given a two hour slot with my friends daughter a family law solicitor and this was for FREE tnere is always a first.. Anyway she explained that there are two areas where my stbx could have a quibble but on the strenght of the two form E's the split of 50/50 was the worst senario and if i could find the strength to fight i could get as much as a 60/40 split in my favour but to tell the truth 50/50 is good enough for me to move on and at the end of the day that is what we all have to do 'Move on' so now its back to scotland ( and the cold oild cottage) but at least i can say that this time leaving the FMH will not be anywhere near as painfull.