Of course it can. ... However battered and brused we might be from the fall out and from whatever point we might be on that journey I want to extend a hand of friendship and best wishes to any Wiki readers who in this New Year time might feel that Xmas was at best for them .. just yet another period of painful reflection.
I'm feeling better than I ever had since my journey began. For me it has been a marker though.. a time to feel my own pulse of healing from heartbreak. If the FitBit I got for Christmas could give a digital readout on that I believe it would be showing positive results. I know it would. Yet again Santa's present to me was the soothing and loving beauty of time passed in the previous twelve months. Time is a careing angel, a constant true friend who continually guides us on our way and never lets us down. I love time with all my heart and I know that she could not rush me along her path.
Since time stopped for me at the beginning, I have very slowly but surely caught up. I'm not fully up to speed and I'm ok with the idea that I might never reach the same perspective of real time as before. Thats because I'm ok with being changed by everything. I'm ok with me again and who I am. The power of my attachement you see was all encompassing. Thats what happens when you are a normal person, happy and in love or someone who has had to suffer the profound consequences of a broken trust.
"Happy" is relative to all of this and its enough to be bathed in the care of time passed with hope for more in the future. A New Year though it surely is and if Xmas was not what you wanted this year .. I understand and so do many others. Our dreams for better yuletides will be fullfilled in the future as long as time continues her careing watch.