I've been married for 20 years me and me and my partner ( soon to be EX) separated 3 years ago, we did agree to separate but when I left he got his finances in order very quickly. We have 2 kids 21 and 17 years old, my 17 year old has been living with her dad who in Dubai "kids like the good life not poverty". I left my ex in Dubai and I am not sure how to proceed with getting my fair share of everything, I am far from greedy and did not want to take him for everything but after the comment that was said to me by him I want what I am entitled to. Comment was I will give you £20,000 cash and be done with it, must consider he earns £110,000 year in Dubai tax free and we have a bought home in UK. he has been in Army for 24 years and as you may know has good pension which I have been warned by him not to touch it, my other issue is can he give it anything to his ex wife so I may not touch it?. I don't know how it would work if he has put his funds into trust fund over there and with draw it after we are divorce.