| Ex won't take children on his days in Parental Responsibility |
posted by caitriona  on 14 Dec at 06:48 | Latest reply is from WYSPECIAL on 14 Dec at 07:04 |
| My ex is now refusing to have the children on his contact days and is going away on tour. As a result i lose my ability to wo... | Probably not what you want to hear but yes he is correct.
No one can be forced to have contact with their children if they... |
| Changing solicitors? any recommendations in Solicitors |
| posted by jenson on 07 Dec at 12:26 | Latest reply is from stay positive on 13 Dec at 23:54 |
| I am thinking changing solicitors I had a FDA and not convinced by both my solicitor and barrister. My [URL=Glos... | Sorry was not meant as a recommendation.... |
| Starting off as a lip - self representing now in Financial |
| posted by LittleSeaHorse on 14 Dec at 15:05 | Latest reply is from LittleSeaHorse on 13 Dec at 19:26 |
| After spending several thousand pounds on a solicitor without getting anywhere, I have decided to self rep and am about to fi... | My ex is not renting as such, he is co-habiting with his girlfriend in her house and paying her some money every month toward... |
| Ctc and sale of property in Financial |
| posted by Nikkimo on 13 Dec at 11:04 | Latest reply is from Nikkimo on 13 Dec at 17:48 |
| Hi
I’m at the final financial furlong and think our consent order will say I have to sell our rental flat (my name only) ... | So the money from selling the flat shouldn’t count as income? It’ll literally clear in my bank then get paid into the mortgag... |
| Debt after maintenance payments in Maintenance |
| posted by Chicken pox on 12 Dec at 13:45 | Latest reply is from Chicken pox on 13 Dec at 15:01 |
| What is the courts view on debt and maintenance payment.
I have applied for an enforcement of non payment of maintenance ... | I suppose only asset he has got is a bigger house than me and a lot more equity and but savings.
Anyone can go on a spend... |
| Impending divorce in General - Divorce |
| posted by tess2947 on 12 Dec at 11:02 | Latest reply is from mara453 on 13 Dec at 10:31 |
| ... | I pray you get through it... |
| Benefit fraud in Benefits |
| posted by IT84 on 13 Dec at 10:00 | Latest reply is from IT84 on 13 Dec at 10:23 |
| Just exchanged forms E with ex in preparation for the first hearing.
He is claiming universal credit as a single person w... | Thanks, but i'm concerned as to how his benefit fraud will affect me in respect of the children.
When they figure out the... |
| Conflicting advice - need some clarity in General - Divorce |
| posted by Withnail79 on 08 Dec at 22:32 | Latest reply is from .Charles on 13 Dec at 10:18 |
| Hi, I am currently going through my divorce using 'Collaborative Law', unfortunately I have been let down by the process whic... | Don't forget to take into account the possibility of buying you out early.
So, it should be upon reaching a specified tr... |
| Urgent help court tomorrow in Financial |
| posted by Twisty on 13 Dec at 06:40 | Latest reply is from Cheesestring on 13 Dec at 09:31 |
| Please can someone advise. Ex from six years ago taking me back to court as one of the debts I said I would pay was wrapped u... | Have you received anything from the court regarding the paperwork to be submitted? Or any deadlines to be adhered to? Or rega... |
| Form e - income and capital needs list in Financial |
| posted by rubytuesday on 01 Apr at 10:02 | Latest reply is from WYSPECIAL on 13 Dec at 07:56 |
| HOUSEHOLD EXPENSES:
Monthly Mortgage (first)
Monthly Mortgage (second)
Monthly Rent.
Monthly Holiday Property
Monthly Co... | Usually full time non advanced education.
CMS goes up to 20 in those circumstances.
CM can only be in a Court Order by ... |
| Recent separation - wife wont sell in Cohabitation and Separation |
| posted by unhappycat on 29 Nov at 11:35 | Latest reply is from jenson on 12 Dec at 19:47 |
| My wife and I have recently separated, we have two children and a mortgage in both names.
I have always paid the mortgage ... | You could start by contacting a few mortgage brokers and find out more about your ability to borrow on your income etc.
... |
| Short marriage in Financial |
| posted by Ellen 29 on 10 Dec at 17:32 | Latest reply is from Ellen 29 on 12 Dec at 19:41 |
| Hello, I was with my husband for 3 years married for 15 months we were cohabiting for 2.5 years. No children. He moved in wit... | Hi thanks for the reply...I would estimate that the property increased by about 5 to 10 thousand in the 2.5 years we were coh... |
| Extra lock installed on matrimonal home in Financial |
| posted by Happy Divorced Mum on 12 Dec at 14:11 | Latest reply is from WYSPECIAL on 12 Dec at 19:10 |
| I have read threads about locks being changed on the main matrimonal home but they do not cover the situation I have.
My e... | If your lock were to "break" you would need to replace it. No point him having a key to the new lock as he has no r... |
| Costs after a final hearing in Financial |
| posted by stay positive on 21 Nov at 18:57 | Latest reply is from jenson on 12 Dec at 18:51 |
| Hello can someone advise please ...
I had my final hearing everything was settled.
After the hearing a issued the ex wi... | Anyway, the reason I mention that you shouldn't lump groups in together is that some lawyers post for free on this forum whic... |
| My ex intentionally made himself jobless! in Maintenance |
posted by Ummsulaiman  on 12 Dec at 09:21 | No replies yet. |
| Hi
Would be really grateful for some urgent advice.
My ex has made himself intentionally unemployed so that he can av... | Click here to read or answer this post |
| Divorce is so overwhelming my story in Discuss anything |
posted by stephanie88888  on 11 Dec at 23:24 | No replies yet. |
| Hi guys,
I've been in the struggle for 18 months now and I've finally pulled my head out of the sand. I'm here for suppor... | Click here to read or answer this post |
| First hearing in Financial |
| posted by jenson on 19 Nov at 19:49 | Latest reply is from stay positive on 11 Dec at 23:18 |
| I have the first hearing in 3 weeks time what to expect at this hearing, and how often do people settle on or after this hear... | Please try to resolve this without going further down the court route. The process is unfair and you will be both be dissatis... |
| Pension query. in Pensions |
| posted by StephP on 08 Dec at 14:37 | Latest reply is from hadenoughnow on 11 Dec at 09:01 |
| Hi all, first post on here so be gentle :laugh:
I split from my Stbx nearly 9 years ago after she had an affair. She move... | If you want a legally binding financial settlement then you will need the figures. They have to go in the D81 Statement of In... |
| 12 and 13 year olds in Contact and Residency |
| posted by CrappyChristmas on 10 Dec at 07:46 | Latest reply is from WYSPECIAL on 11 Dec at 07:51 |
| Our son is 12, daughter is 13.
How do we reach an agreement on care arrangements? How do you even start?
School is ove... | Why not start by looking at what the status quo was before and what is logistically possible?
For example there is no poin... |
| Child arrangement order in Contact and Residency |
| posted by CANM861 on 10 Dec at 21:20 | No replies yet. |
| Hi all, I'm about to start the process with a child arrangement order after years of my ex changing access. She has now stopp... | Click here to read or answer this post |
| Finding legal representative in scotland in Cohabitation and Separation |
| posted by hu9hes on 07 Dec at 22:35 | Latest reply is from hu9hes on 10 Dec at 17:29 |
| I am going to court with a relative soon for a Debate on a Rule 22 motion, arguing that the case against him incompetent. Al... | Many thanks, we decided to instruct a solicitor after all. The solicitor fees for both parties are going to come to more tha... |
| Day 5 in Introduce Yourself |
| posted by CrappyChristmas on 10 Dec at 07:14 | Latest reply is from polar on 10 Dec at 11:03 |
| We recently had our 15th anniversary. We have two kids - 12 and 13. I thought we were good - not great but not at this point.... | Hi, At the moment you are in the 'right'. Do not tell his boss as basically all employees are numbers and replaceable so all ... |
| Enforcing a court order in Financial |
| posted by me449 on 06 Dec at 18:53 | Latest reply is from me449 on 10 Dec at 10:20 |
| Hi all,
As per court order the FMH is due to go on the market at the end of this week. The ex has obstructed the entire d... | Thanks Charles, very very frustrating, especially when one party acts fair and reasonable throughout!... |
| My boy in General - Non-Divorce |
| posted by chatsworth08 on 09 Dec at 20:48 | Latest reply is from Under60 on 09 Dec at 22:48 |
| Hi peeps. Chats here again just asking advice on understanding my 11 yr old boy.
I don't mean animosity or vengeance replays... | I have sent you a private message... |
| Loan to cover divorce expenses? in Property and Mortgages |
| posted by Ede on 28 Oct at 21:40 | Latest reply is from jenson on 09 Dec at 08:08 |
| My solicitors has advised the filing of a Form A as STBX's tactics have been going on for over a year now with no... | I would be very vary of taking out loans you have to think it through very clearly, there is superb support here and some ver... |
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