This blog is written by the girlfriend of the user Dockley, just to show both sides of the coin in a world gone mad where divorce is concerned.

I divorced in 1997 with 2 small children aged 4 & 3. My ex left the home and also took entire contents with him. He stopped paying the mortgage and did not pay maintenance. I on the other hand struggled to keep my part time job, care for the kids and pay the bills. This I managed and eventually had the mortgage(debt) signed over to me. There was no equity in the house at the time. Obviously I was bitter to my ex but some of the stories I read on here

During one of the many evenings and nights I spent on the internet and in computing forums, a ray of sunshine came into my life....... I began chatting to a lady about her computer and tried to diagnose and help her resolve the problems...... I gave her my telephone number in case she needed to chat more...... The following week her computer died. I offered to help her, which she accepted..... I drove down to her place (80 miles) with a spare computer just in case......The outcome was, bin the old computer, transfer the data to the replacement and install BT Broadband....... The following