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Sep 18

2018

Update on my new life

Posted by xargle in planning my new life, new relationships, my story, moving on, happiness, accepting its over

I thought I would write about where I am now in my life.

I have been looking back at my old entries, and I must say that there is life after divorce! For me it's 5 year's since my ex said he didnt want to be with me, 3 years since the divorce and 2 years since he died.

I'm now in a place where I can think about him without being angry , I still get emotional sometimes, but dont we all !

I'm still with the man I met during my break up, he teeats me with respect and kindness,and I wonder why I put up with my ex so long. We each live in our own homes , part of me is reluctant to live with someone

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Aug 21

2018

Summer of Graduations

Posted by RockSteady in worry and anxiety, my story, moving on, happiness, good day, children

Many of us have been attending University graduation ceremonies this Summer. We might have met, as I did, our ex partners for the first time in many years as a result. This can be a challenging at worst or at best just makes us slightly nervous. In my own case I knew I was up to the task as of course my number one priority was and is to support my Daughter. Apart from being overjoyed for her I tried to imagine though how I might feel ho before we met and to my surprise I didn’t know. Would I feel reflective, more happy or sad than normal, would I be anxious?

Might some “feeling” return? By

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Feb 11

2017

The day has finally arrived .....

Posted by HeadKnowsHeartDoesnt in moving on, happiness, good day

That I can now say I'm divorced. Yes,all you lovely Wikis, I have my Absolute. Those final millimetres I spoke about in November turned in inches, but hey ho I've made it across the finishing line with my pride, sense of self worth and sense of achievement in tact.

Is this my walk in the sunshine other Wikis have talked about? you bet it is. My reaction to that piece of paper I found sitting on my doormat was not expected. I cried, but it was tears of relief and the first person I spoke to after me finding out the news, said they could hear the relief in my voice.

So, was it all worth it?

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