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feeling sad and alone

Mar 06

2019

Motivation needed

Posted by Goldie1974 in moving on, his new woman, grief and loss, feeling sad and alone, dealing with emotions, accepting its over

So it appears my dressing gown is the only item of clothing I have laundered in two weeks... leggings are my go to and if STBX and OW saw me I would surely shrivel up and die..

I have yet to feel the motivation to tidy myself up, confidence and self esteem is rock bottom. I thought the news would bring about the desire to join the gym, start yoga or at the very least put get dressed. The divorce diet is believed to be holy grail ... or did I just read this somewhere...

So here I am an absolute wreck ... midway through the divorce process. Managed to get this far because of the blogs I have

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Jul 30

2017

No idea how to look forward

Posted by greycylinder in feeling sad and alone, depression loneliness, dealing with emotions, accepting its over

Hi,

I have never written a blog before but one of the lovely, kind moderators on here suggested it might be a good thing to do to try to help make sense of this horrible situation and my complete despair.

My husband and I have been married for nearly 22 years and together for nearly 25. It was a 2nd marriage for both of us. We both had baggage from our respective pasts and I suppose that's why we were attracted to each other. His 1st wife was bi-polar and in the end he couldn't cope with it and he left her. I think I always felt I had to be 'happy' in order for him to stay.

We were fairly happy

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Jan 08

2017

Happy New Year .. Can it be ?

Posted by RockSteady in my story, holidays, happiness, feeling sad and alone, feeling down, depression loneliness, dealing with emotions

Of course it can. ... However battered and brused we might be from the fall out and from whatever point we might be on that journey I want to extend a hand of friendship and best wishes to any Wiki readers who in this New Year time might feel that Xmas was at best for them .. just yet another period of painful reflection.

I'm feeling better than I ever had since my journey began. For me it has been a marker though.. a time to feel my own pulse of healing from heartbreak. If the FitBit I got for Christmas could give a digital readout on that I believe it would be showing positive results. I

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