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Mar 22

2020

UK Marraige and Divorce Abroad. Need Help

Posted by smartman in worry and anxiety, tired and exhausted, positive thinking, planning my new life, moving on, money and finances, financial arrangements, feeling sad and alone, family law discussion, divorce petition, children, accepting its over

I got married to my british citizen wife in Pakistan in 2003, we had an islamic wedding (Nikkah), On the basis of Nikah I Moved to the UK, Then once in UK we got our marriage registered in UK in 2004. I got my paperwork sorted and became a British citizen thereafter. Around 9 years ago me along with my wife and 2 children moved to Pakistan.

Around 2 years ago my wife decided she couldn't live in Pakistan anymore and left for the UK. We kept in touch and both of us visited each other in UK and Pakistan a couple of times over the next year and a half. In 2019 she came back to Pakistan and

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Mar 05

2019

Motivation needed

Posted by Goldie1974 in moving on, his new woman, grief and loss, feeling sad and alone, dealing with emotions, accepting its over

So it appears my dressing gown is the only item of clothing I have laundered in two weeks... leggings are my go to and if STBX and OW saw me I would surely shrivel up and die..

I have yet to feel the motivation to tidy myself up, confidence and self esteem is rock bottom. I thought the news would bring about the desire to join the gym, start yoga or at the very least put get dressed. The divorce diet is believed to be holy grail ... or did I just read this somewhere...

So here I am an absolute wreck ... midway through the divorce process. Managed to get this far because of the blogs I have

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Jul 30

2017

No idea how to look forward

Posted by greycylinder in feeling sad and alone, depression loneliness, dealing with emotions, accepting its over

Hi,

I have never written a blog before but one of the lovely, kind moderators on here suggested it might be a good thing to do to try to help make sense of this horrible situation and my complete despair.

My husband and I have been married for nearly 22 years and together for nearly 25. It was a 2nd marriage for both of us. We both had baggage from our respective pasts and I suppose that's why we were attracted to each other. His 1st wife was bi-polar and in the end he couldn't cope with it and he left her. I think I always felt I had to be 'happy' in order for him to stay.

We were fairly happy

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