I’ve always been somewhat of a distant person. Always had the attitude of ‘you take me as you find me, if that works for you then fine, if it doesn’t then that’s your problem’. In the past some people have commented that it makes me difficult to get to know, that I’ve seemed standoffish.
I like to think that it’s an honest approach, it’s how I feel. It’s slightly arrogant I know, but not in a malicious way. I mean, I think people should be honest and themselves, not try to hide or be something they are not. Therefore, I think the ‘this is me, take it or leave it’ approach is a good thing.