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Feb 23

2017

Betrayed by my

Posted by 0 in worry and anxiety, tired and exhausted, new relationships, moving on, love, her new man, grief and loss, dealing with emotions, dating, counselling or therapy, breaking up, being single, anger hate revenge, affairs and cheating, accepting its over

I have written and deleted so many intros to this I can't even count...I have never written a blog, but I figured that if I can write something down and maybe find some answers, then what the hell!!

I separated from my wife of 12 years back in August '16 after a 2 year battle with broken trust, which was the result of a meaningless drunken kiss I gave a girl on a work night out. The kiss came about at the end of the night, standing outside the bar at 3am when we were all saying our farewells to the girl, whom I had worked with for 4 years. When it came to my turn to say goodbye, we hugged and

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Jul 25

2016

Positive thinking

Posted by sungirl in self improvement, positive thinking, planning my new life, my story, happiness, feeling sad and alone, feeling down, dealing with emotions, counselling or therapy, accepting its over

i suffer from anxiety, I have done for years now even before my marriage ended probably caused by a mixture of a stress both in work and home life and then the shock and trauma of finding out the person you loved so much and trusted had cheated. Life will never be the same but I have been thinking tonight on just how much my own brain is causing me to have these horrible anxiety attacks and how I can try and help myself to stop them. I've realised that I am a very negative thinker and that I catastrophize the future by thinking of all the bad scenarios that are going to happen and how awful

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Jul 05

2016

I have filedc for divorce as my husband of just over 1 year requested. I feel so lost and alone righ

Posted by jess33 in my story, depression loneliness, counselling or therapy

My husband just days after paying for us to stay in the honeymoon sweet where we had our wedding reception ( we were celebrating our 1st wedding anniversary); he announced he didn't love me anymore and was leaving.

This cane as such a shock we were days away from the adoption celebration for my son thn 13 years old.

I recieved an email in work from the adootion Social worker stating words fail him and Danny (my husband) has withdrawn the application to adopt Leon.

Needles to say i was in tears in work, it was a new job and i was days away from completing the pribationary period. I asked for the

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