My husband has taken the children away for 3 days during the school half-term holidays. This is to give us all some 'breathing space'. Our divorce process is likely to take about 6 months. My solicitor has advised me to stay living in the ex-matrimonial home until the divorce is settled. However, it is very difficult living with my husband without experiencing extreme irritation, which can lead to arguments. My husband's behaviour always seems stressed, he is always fidgiting and cannot sit still or else he falls asleep during a conversation. This puts me 'on edge' also but he will not

Well exactly 2 yrs and 4 months down the line since i have split from him , how am i doing ? not very good. little while ago i thought i was getting there slowly but surely but for some reason these last 2 weeks i have been engulfed by pain.My brain knows why i had to call it a day but my heart does'nt understand , i miss being part of that family unit i hate waking up every day as a lone parent, i hate my life being ground hog day.I'm upset he has sent people christmas cards but no card for our children , it feels like we never exsisted to him, dunno if it's because it's this time of the

So here am I a 6 months after he left. I still hurt but I don't think of him every day - I do find myself thinking of her though - and the anger I feel otwads her scares me. What did she think she was doing taking a friends husband! I don't even want him back though - so why these feelings and thoughts. I wonder if it is because I know she is pulling the strings!

He is back play ing games again - from last weeks - contact me and I'll do you for harrassment to this weeks text - "Can I have Abi on Thrusday evening for test, if you drop her of and collect her - or can I have her to stay Friday if