With Christmas around the corner I'm trying to sort out the arrangements with my multiple cheating ex who is now a nurse in her dream job after 3 yrs of study supposedly unsupported by me. How did she deal with her unhappiness? That's right, in the modern grown up way, falling in love with a married man, oh but he wants to make it work with his wife (conscience got the better of him) so before that has even fizzled out start shagging a serial cheat for the next 2 yrs and while still seeing him date various others all while moi, 'Mr Unsupportive' is at home looking after the little

My life as i knew it has come full circle. I was still living at home with my mum, a lonely batchelor, lacking in self confidence and self esteem, not knowing where my life was heading, had a job, nothing special no career path, scared of life and all the wonders it had to offer. Was I meant for this world and this time? My mum loves me and tells me one day son you'll meet someone nice who see's you for what you are, a lovely, honest, caring man whose happy to help others and will make a great father and partner one day. Then along comes a woman who perhaps see's some of these

Oh how I hate these moments when a new realisation of the situation pops into my head. This morning I asked my children if the new man was dropping them off and picking them up from our friends. I guess I knew the answer before asking it. Yes they confirmed; thus new man is ingratiating himself with my/was our closests friends thought I. Later when discussing this with my colleague, it dawned on me that when my ex is working nights the 'vulture' as my angry mind likes to call him these days, would be in sole charge of my children. Putting them to bed, reading stories, tucking them in