Still reeling. Just found out this morning that not only has ex re-married (to OW) but they've just had a baby. He's 59- so good luck with that! More shocked that he didn't bother to tell his daughters but to be honest not really that surprised. My oldest son had the dubious pleasure of sharing the news with them. Not sure how I

So here I am, 2 years post divorce and still wondering if I will ever get out of the financial poo that ex dropped me in. I am working on supply regularly but the money doesn't stretch far enough. I have cut back all expenses ( we have to eat) but my biggest outgoings seem to be ongoing expenses for gas/water/council tax etc- temporarily have 2 adult children and son's partner and puppy living with myself and youngest daughter and they are great, helping financially but I can't see an end to a constant spiral of bills- I have re-negotiated a bank loan but money is so tight that I often have

Hi everyone Just had a chat with my youngest son and was taken aback at the hatred and anger he still holds against his oldest brother and the part that he played (in son's eyes) in my marriage break up and the consequential devastation of finances- I know I was a mess for quite a long while after the break up and my 2 younger(adult) sons were very supportive and helped me a great deal -at around the same time my oldest son was sentenced to a prison term for a year and it impacted hugely on the family. My oldest son served his time and has managed to turn his life around through hard work