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Dotti6157's Blog

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I am a 60 year old man and the applicant in this divorce I was married to my wife for 22 years but together over 25 years, I was diagnosed with MS in 1998 and tried to carry on working until 2007 at which time it was impossible for me to work and some times the only way I knew what day it was is looking at my medication tub if it was Tuesday then I knew it was Tuesday, Once I stopped work depression set in and this is what has brought our marriage to a end. my wife is a fit and active girl and I think she couldn't understand that the care I needed was a little more than holding my hand but this is life and now we are coming to the FA I am broke she is rich I need some of her money she wants to keep it, and I find this very sad that after all these years money is the main factor. I moved away after getting the nisi to Scotland 550 miles away from her so that I couldn't see her which I thought would make it easier, well that didn't work I miss her like mad but she just carries on with life as if I was never there, Thankfully I had the luck to find this site and now I am self representing I look every day for advice and to try and understand how others in my predicament cope and I don't feel so alone anymore But now I suppose the fight really starts I think its all about self preservation she is trying to come to a deal with my son regarding monies but at this time we are league's apart she wants to give very little and I don't want to take a lot but the area in the middle is where we need to settle, I thank god that we never had children in this marriage because of our ages and where I tried very hard to make all the kids from our previous marriages be as one family now the differences are clearly showing very sad

Mar 19

2017

Help myself

Posted by Dotti6157 in worry and anxiety, my story, money and finances, general interest, depression loneliness, attending court

Today is the next episode. I contacted the Southampton Family Court to ask roughly when i might get a date for the first appointment to be told that they have transfered to case to yeovil county court, A logistical nightmare for me.. I then telephoned Yeovil and spoke to a very plesant young lady and explained that for me to go from Glen Clova to Yeovil is either a 10 hour drive eack way or a trian journey with 5 changes and

with My MS it would be a nightmare, She said that I could consider filing a Form D11 application and move the case to Lancaster as I am the petitioner. I think that this

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Mar 17

2017

What next

Posted by Dotti6157 in my story, money and finances, financial disclosure form E, financial arrangements, family law discussion, depression loneliness, breaking up

i am a 60 year old man and the applicant in this divorce I was married to my wife for 22 years but together over 25 years, I was diagnosed with MS in 1998 and tried to carry on working until 2007 at which time it was impossible for me to work and some times the only way I knew what day it was is looking at my medication tub if it was Tuesday then I knew it was Tuesday, Once I stopped work depression set in and this is what has brought our marriage to a end. my wife is a fit and active girl and I think she couldn't understand that the care I needed was a little more than holding my hand but

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