Well folks - it's been a long time since I came on the site - so thought I'd let you know how things are. Ex got engaged to significant other over the summer and divorce was finalised in September awaiting Court approval of the Consent Order. That was eventually sorted following a Court hiccup - meaning it took nearer 6 weeks than the 2 we were led to believe. All done and dusted so to speak - and as a bit of a result I managed to keep my pension entirely and got a share of the equity based on a 12 month old valuation - given current state of the market a right result! Ex then got married to

My estranged husbandleft in 2004, and agreedto allow me to stay in the marital house until our last child left school three years later. He has now decided to exercise his legal right to return to live here. I believe he first mooted this in the summer when I’m told he had to move following the end of his long term relationship. He has suggested we could share the house but I have moved on with my life and, moreover, would not feel comfortable (safe?) living under the same roof

Since he left, he has made no contribution to the mortgage or any other outgoings, although I expect his

Hi All

For those that have met me, probably think im one big party animal but im not all the time, I still have feelings and still get very down.  Havent blogged for a while and yes I love to party really love it but we cant be party animals all the time!

 It all happened with me last Thursday and was saying to peeps how good I have been with no contact ect for 5 weeks and the rest.

That particular day got a bit silly as was having a clear out and came across some a remote control which I thought was his as well as some anniversary cards from our first wedding anniversary.

I texted him to ask