I have had quite a few emails asking how the reconciliation is going. Wasn't sure about blogging as feel a bit out of place on a divorce website saying how a reconciliation is going.

Well it has been hard. Reconciliation is no easy path. But after a few initial rough patches we are doing great. We are dating and  texting like teenagers, it is fantastic. We won't live together for a while as it's like starting a new relationship. He stays over at the weekend and one night during the week so we still have our own space. We are talking about the future. I started a great new job a month ago and

Wow, I had said before my life changes direction every few hours at the moment. Well after his declaration of his way or the highway which I said in your dreams matey to and then told him if he was to stand any chance of working things out then he and the bartart couldn't even be friends, I also said I needed space and didn't want to see him - so last night (without telling me) he went to see her and told her he was going to work it out with me and would not see her anymore even in a friend capacity. He said she cried as she really wanted a future with him. And before you say how do I know

God he is a fruit loop. BUT next friday night we are having a date. He has agreed to try from beginning. Not holding breath but I said i needed space and was backing off so he came running forward. We'll see. Not giving up yet on 19yrs. It is a proper first date type date, scary...........

Update - probabaly no date will happen as I decided enough was enough with his gob and said again she is to be no part of his life friend only or not. I told him I was not competing for him and said perhaps space was what was needed until he was in a place where he could decide what was what. I explained me