Hi Wikipeeps... old and new!!

I promised to keep you updated with the reconcilliation and its been a whole month since I blogged last..... Have you missed me??? 

Things are chugging along nicely, we are still living apart but spending more time together, we have had a week away in the sun (lovely!) and the kids are now on speaking and 'nearly affectionate' terms with him.  It is not easy though, you can't just pick up where you left off, things have to be addressed and feelings discussed... it can't be avoided. When we are together (just us) it's nice ... and normal... we are not treading on

Hi Wikipeeps ....

This is a blog to sort out my own feelings as much as to ask advice?

Many of you will have read my previous blogs but many of you wont have (personally I dont blame you they are just the ramblings of a confused mind!).  In May this year my 'workaholic' husband left me because we were going through a bad patch ... we'd had a catalogue of life changing events including moving to a house that was a 'project', death of a parent, suicide attempt of another and then redundancy..... all in a short space of time.   After a lot of hard work on my part we are now in the middle of a

Hi Wikipeeps

Well I promised I would keep those of you who were interested informed... so another two weeks on and its still going well.

 We are still living apart and I am seriously liking it .. In fact, I am worried I am liking it a little too much!  We both have our own space, I have the kids, I am financially stable (if not solvent!).  I do not have to cook, clean, wash or iron for him and I am not answerable to him.  I do have the love, attention and communication that wasnt there before he left.   It is, in many ways, the perfect relationship!

We are just about to book a family holiday for