Decided the best thing for me was not to communicate with my ex so I have deleted her phone number - this has worked quite well for the past week.

I found out that she had planned to go away this weekend with her new fellow as it is his birthday.  All good with me - it would mean that I would have my son for the whole weekend.

This morning she texted me saying 'will you look pick up son on Friday as I have booked to go away this weekend it you can not then I will take him with us.' Now this made my blood boil she seemed to be blackmailing me; look after son or I will take him away on dirty

Sometimes you know what you are thinking is wrong and you know it is not a good idea. Nevertheless you can not get the thought out of your head.

 I would just like to say thanks to everyone who gives advise and support in the chat room.

Went round to pick up my son on Sunday after a really good weekend out with mates.

She turned up 40mins later than the time we had arranged so I was talking with her parents whilst I waited. My son had brought a toy for a kitten round ex's sister's house and wanted me to take him round there to give it.

I went and had a good chat with them, had not seen them for a little while. The ex's sister asked me if I wanted to go away on holiday with them and take my son as the ex did not want to go. I said yes and was looking forward to the break.

 This morning I get a call from sister's husband to