Now here I am someone who feels they are just doing their job and they have a purpose.

My ex only went to them after a argument when a few things were said she was happy receiving weekly payments from me until I changed the locks at our house. She hadn't been there for two months and had said she was never coming back to the house!

Anyway enough about the history on to the CSA, I had been waiting for letter from CSA or call and I am happy to give my details as the payments will be about the same as the weekly payments.

Last night I got a call from someone who said can I have your date of

Not a great day work really busy and ex phoned me up to talk rubbish.

 I told her not to call me unless something important, which I think anoyed her as she has now told me that I can not see my son this Friday.

I asked her why and she told me that it was because they are going to Southend with her new man on Saturday morning and have planned to leave at 6am, it is only a 70 mile journey so dont know why she needs to leave so early.

I said that I would drop him of at 6am but that was not good enough either. It seems that everyones advise was right. I have to bite my lip and be nindifidsfin it

Hi Mr Blogman,

 It is Friday night, I just thought I would pop in and say hi! Am a little bored home alone the kids two doors up are having a party maybe I should gate crash with my mug of Horlicks in hand.

Well it has been interesting week dealing with the ex, when I dont phone her she always contacts me about some rubbish. She is being really awkward with access to my son, before she had introduced our son to her new fellow she was happy for me to have him for the whole weekend from Friday till Sunday but now she can combine the two I am told I can collect him at 4pm on Satuday and drop him