Hi blogger man

Well I have spoken to my mortgage provider and everything seems okay to get the extra money to pay of ex and the repayment amount for the top up was half the amount I was expecting.

All going well at the moment: I feel happy, I dont hate my ex anymore, job is going well, enjoying life again, able to talk with the ex about our son without us shouting at each other....hmmm this is a bit worrying all seems to be going too well.

Oh well thats it - just a quick one as I am gonna pop into the chat now and see how you all doing.

 BFN

Big talks with the ex today and I managed to calm her down everytime she tried to argue with me. - It is great you finish as a couple and they still think they can treat you the same!!

Oh well good news she has decided to accept my offer to buy her out so I can stay in my house and not have to move to a flat and loose loads of money to estate agents, stamp duty, redemtion penalty etc.......

So onwards to the new chapter in my life once it is all done and signed of I think I will have to get a lodger to help pay with the bills - no more walking around in my under crackers!!! LOL

She actually

Hi blogger

Well it is Friday and all is good, got weekend with my son although ex is trying to cut that short - she wants him back Sunday afternoon instead of the usual Monday morning - she works Sunday from 7 so cant work out why she wants to do that??? Just gotta rise above it, just gotta rise above it Paul.

Looking forwards to a quite weekend after last weekend took me until Wednesday to recover from.

Not sure what to do with my 4 yo son this weekend, will play golf and football in the garden if the weathers nice and he is bringing down his Wii J J J So probably wont have much spare