Most of the blogs on here are pretty depressing reading.  After all, we only tend to blog when things go wrong, and we need help.  So, in an effort to redress the balance, here's a more upbeat story of things going right.  It can work out.

We're in the middle of sorting out the finances.  It's not going to be easy.  There's simply not enough money to go round.  We're going to have to sell the house, and we have a load of debt.  Money was something we rowed about constantly.  My stbx is trying to sort out benefits, meanwhile I'm paying the running costs on two houses and the mortgage on one,

evening blog....

well on a lighter note than my blogs of late, ive got the name for single females with no children (see FBGS's blog of the 26th may 08)

FREEMALE

ok this isnt my idea but I read an article today,purely by accident and it reads something like this.

Sisters (ok dont like this term but hey ho) have been doing it for themselves for a long time now, more than ever, we are happy to be on our own (however the occasional encounter might be nice !!). So happy in fact we have given up looking for Mr Right and just want to concentrate on our own rights - the right to shoes, the right to

Im in a good place emotionally, feeling very settled and ready for anything.

I realise this may not last, but hope it will. You guys know what im like.

My depression is lifting, (after a very bad 12 months) and i give all my friends at Wiki most of the credit. You make me laugh and put up with me. i will be forever grateful.

Life is good, i got lots of stuff going on, and am looking forward with head up shoulders back and tits out and a big smile on my face.

I have put up with enuf crap from x and his g/f Chucky, including his suicide threats when i refused to take him back, and her death