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			<title>Be &quot; Nurse&quot; but be patient...</title>
			<link>http://www.wikivorce.com/divorce/Divorce-Blogs/3235-Be-Nurse.html</link>
			<description>&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;We have a very special ceremony once a year, just before we start to take word placement as&amp;nbsp; student nurse. We are given a nurse cap.&amp;nbsp; I know it is too clasic , never ever seen in England. &amp;nbsp;NHS nurses don&amp;#39;t wear nurse cap any more.&amp;nbsp; Even in Japan, lots of hospitals stop wearing the cap.&amp;nbsp; I am working at 2 places (hospital and day surgery) as Therapist, both of them , nurses don&amp;#39;t wear the cap any more. Even when I m qualified as nurse, I will [...]</description>
			<author>yuki2061@yahoo.co.uk</author>
			<pubDate>Sun, 16 Nov 2008 01:00:00 +0100</pubDate>
		<category>work career business</category>
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 <category>my day today</category>
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			<title>Back to some kind of normality ?</title>
			<link>http://www.wikivorce.com/divorce/Divorce-Blogs/2949-Back-to-some-kind-of-normality.html</link>
			<description>&lt;p&gt;Well folks ... I managed to drag myself back to work and I am glad I did :) &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;It was nice to get back and get back into the thick of things ! I do realise that I am responsible totally for myself now I am alone and that developing my career to secure my financial future is vitally important. Keeping things together at work is vitally important to me but occasionally it all gets too much and I need to take some time away to regroup, get some &amp;#39;head space&amp;#39; and get things back into p [...]</description>
			<author>kat.webster@tiscali.co.uk</author>
			<pubDate>Wed, 15 Oct 2008 01:00:00 +0100</pubDate>
		<category>work career business</category>
 <category>my day today</category>
 <category>financial arrangements</category>
 <category>feeling sad and alone</category>
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			<title>Risk v No Risk!</title>
			<link>http://www.wikivorce.com/divorce/Divorce-Blogs/2896-Risk-v-No-Risk.html</link>
			<description>&lt;p&gt;Hi Wikipeeps ....&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This is a blog to sort out my own feelings as much as to ask advice? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Many of you will have read my previous blogs but many of&amp;nbsp;you wont have&amp;nbsp;(personally I dont blame you they are just the ramblings of a confused mind!).&amp;nbsp; In May this&amp;nbsp;year my&amp;nbsp;&amp;#39;workaholic&amp;#39; husband left me because&amp;nbsp;we were going through a bad&amp;nbsp;patch ...&amp;nbsp;we&amp;#39;d had a catalogue of life changing events including moving to a house that was a &amp;#39;project&amp;#3 [...]</description>
			<author>steve@rigdens.wanadoo.co.uk</author>
			<pubDate>Sun, 12 Oct 2008 01:00:00 +0100</pubDate>
		<category>worry and anxiety</category>
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			<title>Mixed Signals</title>
			<link>http://www.wikivorce.com/divorce/Divorce-Blogs/2832-Mixed-Signals.html</link>
			<description>&lt;p&gt;I think a lot has happened since my last blog, not all for the good though.I,m still having to cope with the downfall of my marriage,still having to keep up appearances at work[no-one at work is aware].Still having to face the heartache of coming home to an empty household which used to be filled with noises equivalent of planes taking off.The lone existance i have now is unbearable.I keep saying to myself i did the right thing,sometimes thats enough to make me feel stronger,other times it si [...]</description>
			<author>e.salaun@sky.com</author>
			<pubDate>Sun, 05 Oct 2008 01:00:00 +0100</pubDate>
		<category>work career business</category>
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			<title>Another irritation</title>
			<link>http://www.wikivorce.com/divorce/Divorce-Blogs/2818-Another-irritation.html</link>
			<description>&lt;p&gt;I have just heard from the jobcentre people.&amp;nbsp; I don&amp;#39;t know why they didn&amp;#39;t just tell me this in the first place and not waste my time.&amp;nbsp; Apparently I don&amp;#39;t qualify for incapacity benefit, not because I am not unwell (I am) but because I haven&amp;#39;t paid enough NI contributions in any one of the three tax years that count - 6 April 2004 to 5 April 2007.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; Since I told them I had come back to the UK on 4th December last year and had worked from the beginning of Ja [...]</description>
			<author>mneme2006@yahoo.co.uk</author>
			<pubDate>Sat, 04 Oct 2008 01:00:00 +0100</pubDate>
		<category>worry and anxiety</category>
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			<title>yesterday</title>
			<link>http://www.wikivorce.com/divorce/Divorce-Blogs/2512-yesterday.html</link>
			<description>&lt;p&gt;Did write in it yesterday.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Horrible day.&amp;nbsp; Went to work - cried - my boss gave me a good telling off - after me crying for about an hour - we was late for our disciplinary and looked worse for wear!! &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;My boss said how I can go to George with the begging bowl for a rise for you if you are not working! Bloody hell! I am going through the worse thing that has ever happened to me for christ sake.&amp;nbsp; But I know she is right and her keeping on at me will get me through - her Sagi [...]</description>
			<author>caroline.steed@ntlworld.com</author>
			<pubDate>Sat, 13 Sep 2008 01:00:00 +0100</pubDate>
		<category>work career business</category>
 <category>feeling down</category>
 <category>dealing with emotions</category>
 <category>bad day</category>
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			<title>my horrible lie</title>
			<link>http://www.wikivorce.com/divorce/Divorce-Blogs/2445-my-horrible-lie.html</link>
			<description>&lt;p&gt;I feel guilty for lying to work to get a few days off to sort head out.&amp;nbsp; I told them my father had a heart attack and need time off.&amp;nbsp; If i didn&amp;#39;t I wouldn&amp;#39;t have a job coz of too many sick days due to stress.&amp;nbsp; Feel so guilty using my father and especailly an illness like that.&amp;nbsp; My mum is terminally ill with cancer but didn&amp;#39;t want to use that.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I just need a few days for me to sort my heard out and see if hubby will keep promise.&amp;nbsp; Guilty but needed.&amp;nb [...]</description>
			<author>smurf1973@btinternet.com</author>
			<pubDate>Wed, 10 Sep 2008 01:00:00 +0100</pubDate>
		<category>worry and anxiety</category>
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			<title>Buses and work and things</title>
			<link>http://www.wikivorce.com/divorce/Divorce-Blogs/2243-Buses-and-work-and-things.html</link>
			<description>&lt;p align=&quot;left&quot;&gt;Today started with the dreaded bus ride first part to Mapusa city &amp;frac12; hour 8p next part to Karawada 10mins 3p bit of a bargain I think.&amp;nbsp; Ok I didn&amp;#39;t get a seat but at least I was inside! &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align=&quot;left&quot;&gt;After some play time and reading I had a small group to bake a banana cake. One of the volunteers brought in the stuff. They had to peel a banana then chop it up. One of my group peeled it and put it straight in his mouth, oops. Well we made it and they washed th [...]</description>
			<author>sally.stevens@hotmail.co.uk</author>
			<pubDate>Wed, 27 Aug 2008 01:00:00 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>I should be happy shouldnt I?</title>
			<link>http://www.wikivorce.com/divorce/Divorce-Blogs/2143-I-should-be-happy-shouldnt-I.html</link>
			<description>&lt;p&gt;Ok so separated from husband for two years, it&amp;#39;s been 4 months since i got my decree nisi, so its all done and dusted.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Been on auto pilot since he left, and setting goals to make sure that good for nothing lieing heartless cheat wasn&amp;#39;t going to get the best of me, so i started studying, it helped keep my mind occupied, instead of wasting time thinking of someone who was clearly not worth and had moved on with his life.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;Wanted a career, so went for something i wanted  [...]</description>
			<author>butterfly_colours@hotmail.com</author>
			<pubDate>Tue, 19 Aug 2008 01:00:00 +0100</pubDate>
		<category>work career business</category>
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			<title>planning my new life</title>
			<link>http://www.wikivorce.com/divorce/Divorce-Blogs/2085-planning-my-new-life.html</link>
			<description>&lt;p&gt;I&amp;#39;m feeling rather sad. I&amp;#39;m back at work tomorrow after 7 weeks off with depression and feel quite apprehensive.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;After weeks of yes/no yoyo my husband arranged for us to have a chat about getting back together. He cancelled 90 mins before our meeting saying he wasn&amp;#39;t in the mood to chat but if I was feeling horny then he&amp;#39;d pop round. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I have so had enough and feel crushed. Why does he mess me about like this?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Why do I let him?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;He&amp;#39;s said me and the k [...]</description>
			<author>alisonstrange@ntlworld.com</author>
			<pubDate>Thu, 14 Aug 2008 01:00:00 +0100</pubDate>
		<category>work career business</category>
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			<title>14th August 08</title>
			<link>http://www.wikivorce.com/divorce/Divorce-Blogs/2075-14th-August-08.html</link>
			<description>&lt;p&gt;Yesterday afternoon I rang my prospective employer, with a few concerns that had been bought to my attention after tlking to a friend about my new up coming job. The job description was &amp;quot;cleaner&amp;quot; when I attended the interview on monday I was told what was expected frm me. I spent approx 1h 25 mins there going over things. I was to clean the main day area, dinning area, main toilet used by majority of residents, hallways &amp;amp; bedrooms which are unsuite. I was also told tht myb once  [...]</description>
			<author>LindaHubble@hotmail.com</author>
			<pubDate>Thu, 14 Aug 2008 01:00:00 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Does Arnie add value to wikivorce</title>
			<link>http://www.wikivorce.com/divorce/Divorce-Blogs/1932-Does-Arnie-add-value-to-wikivorce.html</link>
			<description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I am nearly half a century old, I have zero qualifications, I am the father of two children: Child J who is 18(my little man) and Child SJ who is 15(my beautiful daughter).&amp;nbsp; As of June 2004 Child J and I have lived on our own in glorious Gloucestershire. &lt;br /&gt;Mum and I were fully consenting partners for 20 years. I pulled the trigger in the martital breakdown. &lt;br /&gt;I am a modern Dad FULLY involved from conception onwards. In the&amp;nbsp; social circles we mixed, I was one of the mos [...]</description>
			<author>arniesaccnuson@googlemail.com</author>
			<pubDate>Tue, 29 Jul 2008 01:00:00 +0100</pubDate>
		<category>work career business</category>
 <category>positive thinking</category>
 <category>my story</category>
 <category>mediation experiences</category>
 <category>debt and bankruptcy</category>
 <category>dealing with the court</category>
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			<title>Abit of downtime</title>
			<link>http://www.wikivorce.com/divorce/Divorce-Blogs/1928-Abit-of-downtime.html</link>
			<description>&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Dear Mr Blogman, and my wiki friends&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;so its monday, im on a downer....had an email today from my ex&amp;#39;s old boss (who works in the same company as me) saying that he&amp;#39;d seen my ex last week and he is just as unhappy as me...and that he hopes we get back together...his ex boss hopes we get back together, he didnt say that ex said it..&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;my response ?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&amp;quot;You&amp;#39;ve got to be kidding me !!!!&amp;quot;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;he&amp;#39;s out there shagging ( i know im sorry) his bit o [...]</description>
			<author>Daisyflower40@hotmail.co.uk</author>
			<pubDate>Mon, 28 Jul 2008 01:00:00 +0100</pubDate>
		<category>worry and anxiety</category>
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			<title>Sorry no humour today !!</title>
			<link>http://www.wikivorce.com/divorce/Divorce-Blogs/1896-Sorry-no-humour-today.html</link>
			<description>&lt;p&gt;No emotional reason other than its getting late and I want to get to bed&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Third day at work, pressures and deadlines increasing rapidly.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Went to first councelling session before lunch, most of it very much as I expected, &amp;quot;tell me about your situation&amp;quot; well he should not have given me so much freedom, he got the whole of the last 4 years, warts and all and as a bonus a full analysis of reasons and perceptions on both sides. In the end he appeared to be eager to  [...]</description>
			<author>wikivorce@sbainbridge.cix.co.uk</author>
			<pubDate>Wed, 23 Jul 2008 01:00:00 +0100</pubDate>
		<category>worry and anxiety</category>
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			<title>First Day Back At Work</title>
			<link>http://www.wikivorce.com/divorce/Divorce-Blogs/1878-First-Day-Back-At-Work.html</link>
			<description>&lt;p&gt;One small step for a man, one giant leap for his mental health&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sorry for the terrible miss-quote.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;First of all something about how I regard my job and myself - I regard myself as a professional person doing a job that I love with dedication, enthusiasm and with a passion, It was a moment of great despair when I learnt of the stbx&amp;#39;s immenant departure and being sent home from work being unable to do the job I loved so much. It was the correct decision as I would have  [...]</description>
			<author>wikivorce@sbainbridge.cix.co.uk</author>
			<pubDate>Mon, 21 Jul 2008 01:00:00 +0100</pubDate>
		<category>work career business</category>
 <category>self improvement</category>
 <category>positive thinking</category>
 <category>my story</category>
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			<title>I was feeling positive</title>
			<link>http://www.wikivorce.com/divorce/Divorce-Blogs/1842-I-was-feeling-positive.html</link>
			<description>&amp;nbsp; &lt;p&gt;I just found out I didn&amp;#39;t get a job I went for last week and I am gutted. It&amp;#39;s the only interview I&amp;#39;ve had I and I am trying so hard to get work so I can look after my son. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;No one will give me a chance. I&amp;#39;m intelligent I even have a degree which doesn&amp;#39;t seam to be helping me. I haven&amp;#39;t worked for 8 years and now I can&amp;#39;t get back in. Rejection is hard when you&amp;#39;re feeling so low about everything else. I don&amp;#39;t know what to do or how I&amp;#39;m going [...]</description>
			<author>judithallan@fsmail.net</author>
			<pubDate>Tue, 15 Jul 2008 01:00:00 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Kids Deciding</title>
			<link>http://www.wikivorce.com/divorce/Divorce-Blogs/1786-Kids-Deciding.html</link>
			<description>&lt;p&gt;Hi,&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The first blog of maybe many. &amp;nbsp;My soon to be ex has issued divorce papers citing unreasonable behaviour. &amp;nbsp;This is a bit odd given the fact that she has been having an affair with her Boss for the last 12 months.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Anyway it is not about them it is now about the kids...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;What age can they decide which parent they want to live with. &amp;nbsp;My daughter is 11 and my son 13.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I work in Holland and commute home (or say I used to) weekly. &amp;nbsp;My company that I work [...]</description>
			<author>keithmash@hotmail.co.uk</author>
			<pubDate>Mon, 07 Jul 2008 01:00:00 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Hello, Monday, start of a new week, and time to plan!</title>
			<link>http://www.wikivorce.com/divorce/Divorce-Blogs/1660-Hello-Monday-start-of-a-new-week-and-time-to-plan.html</link>
			<description>&lt;p&gt;Mondays, I hate them, firstly because I had my angels for the weekend, and they have gone back to her today, secondly because they are always so busy at work!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Had a great weekend, lots of running around with the kids, felt like a normal father, I learnt that my daughter still thinks that mummy and daddy will get back together, as daddy is nicer than mummy&amp;#39;s new boyfriend, nice to know!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I had to tell her that it wasn&amp;#39;t the most likely thing in the world to happen, but she s [...]</description>
			<author>andrew.reeves-smith@t-mobile.co.uk</author>
			<pubDate>Mon, 23 Jun 2008 01:00:00 +0100</pubDate>
		<category>work career business</category>
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			<title>Dulce et decorum </title>
			<link>http://www.wikivorce.com/divorce/Divorce-Blogs/1135-Dulce-decorum-et.html</link>
			<description>&lt;p&gt;It&amp;rsquo;s a long and boring story that I don&amp;rsquo;t suppose any one else will read but I need to get this off my chest so where to start? Well who am I ... the newly named morning star, bit strange this to have such a name at my time in life but it was given to me by the new man in my life in the land between the two rivers. I am strong and capable but not when it comes to emotions or standing up to my ex. I am so determined to do the right thing that I end up doing the wrong thing for me.  [...]</description>
			<author>michelle.mackintosh@gmail.com</author>
			<pubDate>Tue, 08 Apr 2008 00:00:00 +0100</pubDate>
		<category>work career business</category>
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			<title>Communication - you want it so much yet dread it so much.</title>
			<link>http://www.wikivorce.com/divorce/Divorce-Blogs/523-Communication-you-want-it-so-much-yet-dread-it-so-much.html</link>
			<description>&lt;p&gt;Well we had a planned conversation last night which started on time, was civil, kept to the subject and left us both on an emotional even keel.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;So that&amp;#39;s good, isn&amp;#39;t it?  So why later in the evning did I feel that it hadn&amp;#39;t been quite even.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Perhaps it is paranoia, I don&amp;#39;t know.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The plan I had laid on the table a few weeks ago was for me to put self-employed business on back burner, running it as an evening or week-end role and to look for regular waged work.&lt; [...]</description>
			<author>julian@pc-cb8.co.uk</author>
			<pubDate>Thu, 01 Nov 2007 00:00:00 +0100</pubDate>
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