Blog Entries tagged 'moving on'

That's it - all his stuff is gone

gioholiday@aol.com — Sat, 04 Oct 2008 01:00:00 +0100

He wanted to come over and get some more clothes etc, so I arranged to be out all day. Went to lunch with mum and the kids, and spent afternoon shopping with them. Had quite a good day, when I got home I checked exactly what had gone, he has cleared out all his clothes, all paperwork, and taken his precious cricket memorabilia. The drawers are now completely empty, and the hangers swing in the empty wardrobes. On the one hand it's good as it means he has no excuse to return, but on the ot [...]

TO DATE OR NOT TO DATE? THAT IS THE QUESTION

boothyboy666@hotmail.co.uk — Tue, 30 Sep 2008 01:00:00 +0100

How do you know when its time to move on and start to do normal things again like dating? Since the age of 13 i have spent 17 years in total - in 2 long relationships (one of which was married) and im only 32. People around me think that i should get back on the horse and 14 weeks on my own is long enough. the thing is i feel that i dont have anything else left to give - my little heart is still broken and i think that if i started dating agai [...]

Monday

caroline.steed@ntlworld.com — Tue, 30 Sep 2008 01:00:00 +0100

Dear Blog Woke up - really ok

Went to work early - Charlotte was in!!

Trying to plan life and get moving in right direction: ----

1. Ring Halifax to find out how much I can have - bloody useless - can't book me an appointment as don't have any (implied because of credit crunch).

2. Gave Charlotte a letter requesting different start and finish times so I can pick up Georgia as she is upset. Don't think she will buy this and Georgia is 13 so can't g [...]

moving on

smurf1973@btinternet.com — Mon, 29 Sep 2008 01:00:00 +0100

Ok the pain is there, it is real but to move forward I must experience it. He is not worth what I myself have put myself through. I must come first at the moment. Baby steps! I deserve to be treated better.

Thanks to all :kiss:

oh well

kevin.j.stevens@btinternet.com — Mon, 29 Sep 2008 01:00:00 +0100

hi you luvly peeps

explaining .....ok im fed up wiv the ex im fed up wiv chat and fed up wiv trust there is no trust in this world just everyone getting what they can when they can so from now on im on my own and will not trust again this is about me noone else just me i will not hurt anymore end of

Not doing that well today, either

mneme2006@yahoo.co.uk — Mon, 29 Sep 2008 01:00:00 +0100

I've had the somewhat humiliating experience today of going into the jobcentre first thing, to start all over again with benefits claims, since giving up my job in July. I couldn't cope any more with the stress, and my stbe (a lot sooner than it might have been if he had been nicer) will not support me even though he knows I am not fit to work. He can well afford it; he just doesn't think he should. His answer is of course for me to go home and to try [...]

My first entry

satoko_t12@hotmail.com — Mon, 29 Sep 2008 01:00:00 +0100

To make me concentrate on recovering, I will start this blog.

As ppl here are so nice and experienced something very difficult, I always feel better and feel positive after chatting ppl in here.

At the moment, I'm trying to deal with my depression and do better on my work.

In this summer, I was flirty and I did enojoy summer itself.

Thinking last summer, I cried everyday and felt no hope, I appreciate this.

Now summer's gone and I don't feel like flir [...]

Trying to let go and move on

dawnuk57@yahoo.com — Sat, 27 Sep 2008 01:00:00 +0100

We lived together 3 years, bought a nice house and got married. We didnt have children as i couldn't stay pregnant for long, always miscarried around 8 weeks! Hubby had 4 kids from 1st marriage and we all got on pretty well, they stayed with us some weekends & on holidays, they lived away so contact wasnt constant.

I thought we happy together on the whole, despite his problems with alcohol & pill addiction (codeine dependency).

I encouraged him to leave his employmennt [...]

12th September

LindaHubble@hotmail.com — Fri, 12 Sep 2008 01:00:00 +0100

Dear blog..

Today i'm sharing a secret with you.. I have a dinner date tomorrow ~massive smiles~ & i'm really nervous, I haven't been out in so many yrs yet alone with another man, other than my stbx. I feel like a teenager going on a first date & i'm sharing my apprehensions with my children & its really strange as i'm sure it's suposed to be the other way around. Ooh I do hope everything goes ok & my nerves don't get the better of me.. In a [...]

Strange days.

memorcarpediem@yahoo.co.uk — Fri, 12 Sep 2008 01:00:00 +0100

What weird days these are. I think I am coming out the other end, I woke up this morning and didn't think I want to die, I felt calm. I really did want not to be alive on many days but I kept coming to wiki and peeps always picked me up. Hopefully no panic attacks today either. This improvement can't be the pills yet as they haven't had time to kick in yet. I think the fact I have now been open with the gp about how I feel and taken control has made me feel better. I first th [...]

Moaning

andrewcbaillie@msn.com — Fri, 05 Sep 2008 01:00:00 +0100

I think that many of the blog entries I've been writing, and the comments being received, are serving only to re-enforce one thing... that my wife and I are incompatible.

You see, one of the biggest things that I notice is the level of moaning that goes on in our household. She'll use many situations to have a moan, and I'll moan at her for having a moan.

Take this morning... I'm in the bedroom looking out of the window at the rain coming down, and she's [...]

Has anyone got any tips?

juliet.steven@tiscali.co.uk — Thu, 04 Sep 2008 01:00:00 +0100

Hello

I've been back at work after 2 weeks off & things feel alright at the moment. My son seems happy at school as well which is a relief, but he did his homework without being reminded which is a little disturbing to say the least! Lol!

I saw a friend this evening & she is amazed at the difference she sees in me. She sees a vast improvement both physically & emotionally. Her reflections have helped me to recognise my own progress. My 'down days' ex [...]

Don't have an affair

andrewcbaillie@msn.com — Thu, 04 Sep 2008 01:00:00 +0100

When I met up with Bob on Tuesday, it was the first time for a while.

I'd been keen to fill him in on the latest, the latest being the fact that I'd found support in this website.

For a long time I've been thinking of having an affair. It would be my way of demonstrating to myself that not all women were as selfish, unreasonable and controlling as the one I'd married.

There are special websites for married people who want to have an extramarital affair, but w [...]

A belated blog entry

andrewcbaillie@msn.com — Thu, 04 Sep 2008 01:00:00 +0100

I'd been so looking forward to yesterday. Silly really, but the kids had been around me so much (especially H because she'd finished school in May), that I really needed "ME TIME".

Yesterday, they were back at school! At last! ...and her, COW as I've nicknamed her, was at work, and I had the whole house to myself.

Now, I'd taken a bit of time here, and a little time there, to start - and bring up-to-date - this blog. I was almost at the point where all th [...]

my 25th wedding anniversary or it would have been..

pinkymalmalred@yahoo.co.uk — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 01:00:00 +0100

well it is now officially my wedding anniversary, as the decree absolute is till not through, so I have decided to blog about how far I feel I have come in the 11 months since we split.

I have gone through turmoil,anger,hurt,rage,pain,sadness,tears, crying myself to sleep,dispair and self doubt I would ever feel right about anything again.

Looking back to this time last year when I would have been sitting in a restaurant,with my nice fancy card with sentiments written in and wonde [...]

What happened last night.

memorcarpediem@yahoo.co.uk — Tue, 02 Sep 2008 01:00:00 +0100

Need to blog and stay close to wiki at the mo, was going to hibernate for a few days but I know that is the worst thing to do.

Yesterday he arrived at 6pm as planned. sat down and I asked for exact details of his current relationship with her and asked where he was at and where he wanted to go with me. He said he is living day to day and no idea where he is at or where he is going. She is a very close friend and it is at the moment non sexual. He couldn't explain how everyone [...]

getting a few things moved on and sorted out.

pinkymalmalred@yahoo.co.uk — Tue, 02 Sep 2008 01:00:00 +0100

I have been talking to s2bx on the phone, after trying unsucessfully for a face to face meeting.After I found out that he missed a few payments on the life insurance policy and mortgage I wanted to know what was happening,as I don't want the house repossessed and if either of us drop down dead the life insurance to be paid out.Finally sorted it out with him and he had been arranging to pay the outstanding payments back.So that is a weight off my mind, even though I find it hard to trust h [...]

getting in touch

annpawley@btinternet.com — Mon, 01 Sep 2008 01:00:00 +0100

My new motto ....never turn down an opportunity to connect. (Does not apply to stbx though)

It's funny how sometimes things happen and you just feel the timing is so spot on, it must mean something. So it seemed very fitting when an e-mail from Friends Reunited popped into my inbox today announcing a profile update on an old friend. We were best friends at school, but have really only exchanged Christmas cards since.

The last few days I have been thinking how m [...]

My ex is hurting - aaawwww shame

Daisyflower40@hotmail.co.uk — Mon, 01 Sep 2008 01:00:00 +0100

Hi Senor Blogman and lovely wiki peeps...

please excuse me for the future hhmmm can you hear it ? sarcasim

so i get an email at work today from my ex !

much discussion ( i did post actual wording but arnie has made me re think about this so I have deleted it) which athough he is right is much to my annoyance as I feel he should be named and shamed for what he's done ! never mind arnies right....

we are meeting within the next 2 weeks...this will [...]

Feeling a little guilty today

andrewcbaillie@msn.com — Mon, 01 Sep 2008 01:00:00 +0100

Good morning (or afternoorn or even evening, depending on when this is read) to my Wiki Blog, and all who read it.

I have a little confession to make. I feel a guilty today, really guilty.

The thing is - last week I joined up, and I seem to have done nothing else other than to slate off one person. My wife.

Now, don't get me wrong, there were no untruths whatsoever in what I wrote, and part of me feels that she deserves a bloody good dressing down, but I don't think [...]