Blog Entries tagged 'letters and paperwork'

Carrie - What makes a man happy ?

craiglees@ntlworld.com — Mon, 13 Oct 2008 01:00:00 +0100

Carrie,

Sorry - too long to post ....

I believe you have all the qualities that would make a man happy.

Trouble is, there are "about 3.3 billion males" (courtesey WikiAnswers) on the planet.

So I guess it's about finding that man (good luck, have fun and stay safe!).

What makes one man happy will drive another insane, what one finds cute another finds irritating, what one finds threatening, another finds attractive, what one finds sexy [...]

Worked my socks off on my statement, and for what?

esiorun@yahoo.co.uk — Mon, 06 Oct 2008 01:00:00 +0100

I'm hanging on by a thread, financially speaking that is. My business is not bringing me any real income, it has managed to pay the mortgage this month which is great, but at the expense of not paying the VAT bill. I noticed today that my back car tyre has a screw in it, I can't afford to get it mended, I just hope it still has enough air in it to do the school run tomorrow. My washing machine has been out of action since Easter and the thermister needs replacing in [...]

Meeting with solicitor

s73serendipitous@aol.co.uk — Thu, 02 Oct 2008 01:00:00 +0100

Had a meeting with my solicitor this morning to discuss various things.

Firstly, the house transfer into my name. We are just awaiting his signature on the documents, now there is a surprise. Hopefully he will just sign them but no doubt it will be in his own time.

I am still waiting for him to sign my life insurance over to me. I am the one paying the premium every month and he is the one that would benefit from my death. I need to know that there is at least a small amount of mo [...]

Difficult Shapes and Passive Rhythms...

keithmash@hotmail.co.uk — Fri, 26 Sep 2008 01:00:00 +0100

Been a while...

In the meantime I have discovered the wiki chat room. For those of you have not tried it please do so.

You will find a room of strangers, who will not judge you, who will be supportive and funny.

The strangers will not say strangers for long, I know that when the dust has settled I will continue to frequent the room.

Although it must be said perhaps not on such a regular basis as at some stage I may actually get out in the real world! I near [...]

Before I go Back to Those Diaries

linda.mcdermot@ntlworld.com — Fri, 29 Aug 2008 01:00:00 +0100

I have had a tough week this week, I have been to the hospital to see a consultant I have now been booked in for urgent surgery for a frozen shoulder so will be struggling to blog as the recovery is 6 weeks. The expert witness says I have stomatoise disorder,abnormal illness behaviour the doctors say different it wants urgent surgery and no amount of cbt therapy is going to help this .My quality of life is now suffering.I always seem to leave it far too long,before I & [...]

Almost There......

flopsybunny_uk@yahoo.co.uk — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 01:00:00 +0100

Yesterday I signed the Separation Agreement, the document that deals with the finances and assets division. The rights and wrongs, the fairness, or unfairness of what’s in it is no longer relevant, it is signed and posted. There is no going back. All I have to do now is wait until November then I can divorce him on the grounds of 12 months non-cohabitation – that is just 3 months away. I have to admit to doing something childish – I have long wanted the wor [...]

Justa letter to my daughter when she wouldnt talk to me....

don.riley55@yahoo.co.uk — Fri, 11 Jul 2008 01:00:00 +0100

Just a letter to my daughter

To: Amelia Grace
It's really hard to believe that now it has been fifteen years nearly. And for you these past few years have been nothing but constant uncertainty. So now I hope to redress the balance a little bit. By hopefully telling you that there are some certainties in life that perhaps I should have been better at making you aware of. For instance the fact that I am irrationally proud of your strong individuality, your stubborn determi [...]

Chapter 2 - Me, Myself and the First Hearing (a self-rep story)

jamescawthron@aol.com — Wed, 21 May 2008 00:00:00 +0100

This is going to be a long one....

Yesterday I had my First Hearing. The previous week I had decided to self-rep as I believed that my solicitor had not got me anywhere. So last week Ravenclaw re-wrote the statement of issues as we believed the ones that had been prepared by the sol did not allow the Judge to fully understand the issues at hand. I had these filed at the court and sent my stbx sol a copy.

Up to this point my stbx had still not submitted her Form E .

So I tur [...]

Letter from ex's solicitor

SUSAN@susanmarshall.orangehome.co.uk — Thu, 03 Apr 2008 00:00:00 +0100

After nearly 17 yrs of marraige my husband announced on the Saturday before Christmas that he did not love me anymore. This was a bolt out of the blue. We agreed to keep together until after Christmas for our two daughters sake aged 14 and 11. What really happened was he went off the rails going out drinking and not coming home sneaking back and lying to the kids. We told them the news the day after boxing day they were devastated.

After I reorganised the finances (paying off some debt [...]

Still in there!

freedobjects@yahoo.co.uk — Thu, 13 Mar 2008 00:00:00 +0100

I have been a bit pro active today going to estate agents,organising one to come to value the house,signed documents,delivered paperwork to solicitors and finding out what was the price of a 2 bed house in my area....I have had no dealings with my wife,since I had suggested joint custody for my daughter...It does not seem to be in my wifes plans.But it is now in mine and for my daughters sake.It can only be better for her as she will have a more balanced view of life.My wife is very strong wi [...]

form e and potential for suggestion of fraud

richard.s.wright@btinternet.com — Fri, 07 Mar 2008 00:00:00 +0100

Well into getting divorced sorting the kids and all going well have a non molestation order against my ex to be for her unreasonable behaviour problem looming is the finances part. I have a obessive ex who is obessed in finding out facts on me relating to finance and yes being self employed my finances are a mess and yes I got a bit carried away sellling shares problem is i think she will pull the form e apart any ideas on how to sort myself out to make matters worse she is seriously jealous [...]

While husband is away!

jayne.roberts@virgin.net — Fri, 07 Mar 2008 00:00:00 +0100

Well arrived at OUR business again (running it single handely) to be met by the in laws. 'Hi you come to walk dogs?' I asked them No feeding them... shitty husband away with new bird for his birthday. Not a word to me. I had warning, a text he sent to me by mistake, a letter of confirmation from fab hotel address Mr & Mrs. The week has just gon e so quick I forgot it was Friday. I am flattened. Especially as his parents are so hostil to ME. I guess they only have his side.

A [...]

Day 3

freedobjects@yahoo.co.uk — Mon, 25 Feb 2008 00:00:00 +0100

I recieved my papers on Saturday.it didn't surprise me.seeing that I had lived a separated life for three years.I continued on making my lunch as if nothing had bothered me at all.Sunday:Woke up feeling sick .from the heart a strange feeling like somebody had died.I questioned myself was it me that had left the nest, the home, the life of those around me.I tried to keep calm and try to think of other things.Monday:Finally read the paperwork.Who looks after daughter?..MOTHER who pays the [...]

an e-mail...

cmason.home@yahoo.com — Thu, 01 Nov 2007 00:00:00 +0100

I can't say for sure what my intentions are. As it becomes more and more clear to me that my wife has decided that we will not be married in the future, I have resorted to the following e-mail. Part of my intention is to make her think about what we have, while part of it is to embed notes for comparison into her subconsious. Will her new partner be all of these things that she knows to be true?

Just read please. We don't need to discuss.

Pros? [...]