Blog Entries tagged 'his new woman'

Mountain out of a molehill?

juliet.steven@tiscali.co.uk — Wed, 20 Aug 2008 01:00:00 +0100

Hello again.

I didn't think I'd be back so soon but just need to write some stuff down so that I can offload.

Just received a phone call from my husband to arrange contact with our son. He is coming this weekend to take him out. That is ok, although, as is becoming the pattern, he has no idea what he is ‘going to do with him'. He then told me that he will be unable to see our son the following weekend because he is away on Wednesday, Thursday and Friday o [...]

Can it go anymore downhill?????

stellahall59@hotmail.co.uk — Sun, 17 Aug 2008 01:00:00 +0100

Scumbag arrived at 10.30-after emailing that he would come at 11.00. He said he was just going to take some things out of the shed. I said I would prefer him to start with the things from the house. He then informed me that he didn't have anything in the house, so I reminded him of all the stuff he had been storing in the loft etc.He told me I could dispose of all that, to which I said I wanted him to do the hard work of moving it, as it was his property.

He then informed me that h [...]

Ten steps backwards

memorcarpediem@yahoo.co.uk — Sun, 17 Aug 2008 01:00:00 +0100

Back to feeling rock bottom again. I thought I would be ok but after yesterdays panic I am emotionally back to being a complete mess again. I drank far too much last night as my head is a bad place to be and thought and tried to be good as in NO TEXTING!!!! Yeah right, did the begging ones.

When am i going to realise it is over. He is lying to me when he says things, I know now he wants his both lives, not just me. I gotta get it in my head he has moved on (he didn't deny barmaid w [...]

Complete panic and heart failure

memorcarpediem@yahoo.co.uk — Sat, 16 Aug 2008 01:00:00 +0100

Oh god, I just dropped daughter into town to go to fair and thought I drove past idiot and woman, my god I never thought i would react like that. I turned car round and drove back past but it was just someone who looked very like him. The joys of living in such a small place. My body went ontp complete panic mode, I thought I was going to hyper ventilate or pass out, I was shaking and thought I was going to burst into tears. I am home and half hour later even though it wasn't him am [...]

Paranoia

memorcarpediem@yahoo.co.uk — Sat, 16 Aug 2008 01:00:00 +0100

Ok went out, nothing to do but thought go into town to mooch. I am losing it, every woman I see I wonder is that her? If she is walking around with a young teen girl I almost stop and try and hear if they refer to any names? The barmaid has 13yr old daughter (I know tart and tarts daughters names). Please tell me other have felt like this and I am not going fruit loop. I just need to know what she looks like, who she is, what she is.

Idiot texted me, I am obviouslly in bad mood, se [...]

Weekend blues

memorcarpediem@yahoo.co.uk — Sat, 16 Aug 2008 01:00:00 +0100

This is the part of the week I hate, the WEEKEND!!! When everyone is happy family and it reminds me how sad and alone I am. Supermarkets full of families, today is the regatta - woop woop - loads families. This is where I get angry as he if filling his weekend and having great fun socialising whilst I at home broke, looking after kids and lonely.

I didn't blog yesterday as was cross. I have been excluded from his uncle's funeral. He is going up to his sisters the night bef [...]

My journey to sanity

hanajohnstonova@hotmail.co.uk — Thu, 14 Aug 2008 01:00:00 +0100

Hi,

My first blog. Trying to determine where I am on my journey to sanity.

I accepted my marriage is over. That was not that difficult, I guess I did not love him for a long time and neither did he. But I will always maintain that the way he got out of this marriage was the most cowardly and selfish, absolutely no consideration for his children. That is why I still wish he suffered and his new relationship did not work out. I know that is a negative feeling that is holding [...]

Are the cracks beginning to show?

sarahchidwick@hbosplc.com — Mon, 11 Aug 2008 01:00:00 +0100

My husband came round to collect our girls yesterday. He was so different...

Previously he has been very 'closed', very business like or deliberately hurtful, mentioning his mistress and his new life. All of this is so out of character of the husband I knew and loved, a complete personality change.

Yesterday he came in, was very chatty. Wanted to know all about our holiday. (The children and I have just retuned from a week [...]

why does he want to talk ?

Daisyflower40@hotmail.co.uk — Mon, 02 Jun 2008 01:00:00 +0100

Evening blog

I didnt think I'd need you tonight but guess what here I am again...what a night and day !!

I got a txt from my ex (this a thing that I dont get why do people call their ex's STBX, when I think after what he's done he is my ex even though still married and not even talking about divorce - should I be calling him STBX ?) anyway get a txt from him last night at 10.30, asking if i was well and had a nice tan and give the kittens his love, ( his [...]

Another Day

mandy.bell7@btinternet.com — Sun, 25 May 2008 01:00:00 +0100

Morning

Didn't sleep well at all. My head is spinning, it's getting nearer the "telling our Sons day "and although the relief of the secret being out is what I've been striving for I'm actually terrified, angry and really fed up today! Doesn't help that s2bx was horrible to me yesterday saying things like " but you will have a mortgage free home" and "why are you so miserable"....does he really care at all that our Sons are going to have [...]

Mish was right

Daisyflower40@hotmail.co.uk — Tue, 06 May 2008 00:00:00 +0100

well blog mish was right !! after leaving here last night i went on a major downer...

at 9.27pm last night he txt me to say he had just heard from his mum that one of our cats (the oldest one) wasnt well..i told her wednesday of last week !!!!!!!! and could he come round and me them all and of course me.....and he wanted to come round tonight tuesday...i simply replied back no sorry am going out. he then replied ok when, which i ignored.

he emailed me at work saying [...]

It gets brighter

ros.rwa@btinternet.com — Wed, 02 Apr 2008 00:00:00 +0100

Today is agood day ...

I am feeling a totally different person. What has caused this -

my counsellor saying one thing

"when are you going to say thank you to Jane"

What say thank you to the woman who took my husband, who lied and cheated and broke my family up ...

But wait he is right.

She did me a huge favour probably the biggest favour anyone in my life is going to do...

I would never have left my husband, I would have taken him back [...]

How my marriage ended

pinkymalmalred@yahoo.co.uk — Mon, 24 Mar 2008 00:00:00 +0100

I had been married for 24 years.Been through a lot with hubby,as been together since age 18.Supported him in good times and bad.In 1998 I became seriously ill with a heart condition that almost killed me, and he showed devotion and looked after me for 2 years giving up work to help look after my new born son.I recovered but hadn't returned to work was just working up to trying to get back in employment.We muddled along and he returned to work.Fast forward to this year, when he kept disapp [...]

This would only happen in a soap - wouldn't it?

Ilovedoggies@croeso.com — Thu, 06 Mar 2008 00:00:00 +0100

Some friends and I bunk off down to local pub every Tuesday for the weekly quiz night and always lose!

Well off we go last tuesday and order our drinks at the bar and who should walk by but my ex, looking like a walking barcode in a very loud stipey shirt(yeah bitchy or what?).

Well the guy moved out last november and live about 2 hours travel away now - so whats he doing here? Well he scarpered out of the pub with me still mid double take.

Half an hour later the woman he s [...]

Introducing New Partners

pjismyboo@hotmail.com — Sun, 24 Feb 2008 00:00:00 +0100

Can't remember where I got this information from now think it was from another website but having chatted with members in the forum this afternoon thought it might be useful to post here. Obviously it is written for the scenario of men introducing their children to new partners but is equally appropriate for women introduing their children to new partners too.

One of the most stressful things you can do as a separated father is to introduce your children to your new pa [...]

The Other Person....

karencockburn41@hotmail.com — Sun, 21 Oct 2007 00:00:00 +0100

I have found myself over the past week or so thinking about the person that my STBX had/has been having an affair with....

I feel very little about this person.... I think I am supposed to feel anger/resentment/hatred for this person - but I don't...

I don't know this person.... I am curious about her....

I wonder why she would involve herself with someone who is married with a family......

Does she feel any 'guilt' about being 'involved' in the [...]