Blog Entries tagged 'debt and bankruptcy'

Feeling utterly wretched today

andrewcbaillie@msn.com — Mon, 10 Nov 2008 01:00:00 +0100

Firstly, may I apologise.

I haven't been in wiki for some weeks.

Before, people used to comment on my blog with very positive c0mments, and with all of the support and understanding I received, I felt strong enough to take life on by myself.

Silly me!

What I forgot however is that - people don't really change. Neither should they, I guess. I mean, I know my wife is very controlling, and that's the reason why we clash, but it's absolutely not my place t [...]

First session in court on 5 November

louise.bowen10@yahoo.co.uk — Fri, 07 Nov 2008 01:00:00 +0100

Wednesday was the first session in court to sort out finances with my stbx. I have to say it was a 'disturbing', unpleasant experience. It really seams that 'the screws are being tightened' on me as we move towards reaching a final settlement.

I saw my solicitor last week to review my stbx's form E. My solicitor pointed out a few discrepancies she and her colleage had noticed. One thing was the number of old life insurance policies stbx had pu [...]

Another irritation

mneme2006@yahoo.co.uk — Sat, 04 Oct 2008 01:00:00 +0100

I have just heard from the jobcentre people. I don't know why they didn't just tell me this in the first place and not waste my time. Apparently I don't qualify for incapacity benefit, not because I am not unwell (I am) but because I haven't paid enough NI contributions in any one of the three tax years that count - 6 April 2004 to 5 April 2007. Since I told them I had come back to the UK on 4th December last year and had worked from the beginning of Ja [...]

Running the house on my own and trying to live the single life

greenharte@ntlworld.com — Thu, 25 Sep 2008 01:00:00 +0100

Well here I am 3 months after the split...

What a time I have had, I think I am over the worst of it now - well I hope anyway. The last few times I have seen my ex I have felt nothing except for relief that we are no longer together.

Her new fellow is welcome to her as long as he is good to my son I have no problem. The relief is that I feel that I am becoming myself again I was unhappy for the last couple of year being in a loveless relationship and realise now how bad I was bei [...]

Lots more new Blog Entries today

andrewcbaillie@msn.com — Fri, 29 Aug 2008 01:00:00 +0100

I've woken up today and felt a wave of desire come over me to "Write It Down".

You see, nearly a year ago something happened in our house (which I'll write about later).

In my eyes, what happened was, well - extra-ordinary.

So upset by it was I at that time, I took myself off to the doctors. I had been meaning to go anyway, I'd been feeling low up until that point anyway and needed to chat with someone about the levels of my drinking that h [...]

Upset about blog comment - note to self

andrewcbaillie@msn.com — Wed, 27 Aug 2008 01:00:00 +0100

Note to self:

Just a little upset about a comment that was left on my blog yesterday, blog entry entitled "My life's analogy".

Explanation - when things happen in your life, it's easy to become obsessed by it. So, if someone makes a comment about your weight, you can easily find yourself looking in every reflection of a shop window, or mirror, to see if you're putting on weight. Or, if you find out someone has been cheating on you, you normal rational [...]

Musn't grumble.

andrewcbaillie@msn.com — Tue, 26 Aug 2008 01:00:00 +0100

I've absolutely no idea what I'm doing, or if anybody will either read or be interested in my blog, but sometimes in life one needs a place to scream - and I'm hoping this'll turn out to be the place for me to do it.

If this blog continues, I'm reckoning that things will kinda start slotting themselves into place, a sort of "self Counselling" service. So here goes, and sorry to any readers for any future ramblings!!

I need to talk about it, the whol [...]

help

barbie44@hotmail.co.uk — Sat, 23 Aug 2008 01:00:00 +0100

I'm new too all this. Having a really bad time. My husband left 4 weeks ago after I had asked him to leave 4 months ago. I had tried so hard to make it work but with his compulsive gambling, drinking and realationship with girl young enough to be his daughter I had had enough.

When he finally left it was without a word to me or his children (22 and 17). He moved all his money into a new account and has left me penniless, try [...]

Cars Galore

arniesaccnuson@googlemail.com — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 01:00:00 +0100

******* updated *********

It was brought to my attention that Safari is a bit of a bugger for embedding pdf's so if the link in the text doesnt work try this one

I thought that I would blog a circular e mail that I received the other day. I am not entirely convinced about the story, but somewhere in the world is warehouse full of beautiful car history.

My business was two years old in [...]

Mega Relief

liz_gorgeous41@hotmail.co.uk — Wed, 30 Jul 2008 01:00:00 +0100

I want to share this with everyone who feels that debt is taking over their lives that they feel they are going to loose everything including FMH.

A debt counsellor paid me a visit he was linked to my mortgage company who want to repossess. After an hr of heart rendering chat my bills have been reduced Im keeping my house for sure. Alot of stuff my sol said wasnt bad advice but not the best and as he pointed out they are not debt expects. He wrote down everything I had to say to sol and [...]

Does Arnie add value to wikivorce

arniesaccnuson@googlemail.com — Tue, 29 Jul 2008 01:00:00 +0100

I am nearly half a century old, I have zero qualifications, I am the father of two children: Child J who is 18(my little man) and Child SJ who is 15(my beautiful daughter). As of June 2004 Child J and I have lived on our own in glorious Gloucestershire.
Mum and I were fully consenting partners for 20 years. I pulled the trigger in the martital breakdown.
I am a modern Dad FULLY involved from conception onwards. In the social circles we mixed, I was one of the mos [...]

why are we the only ones suffering?

jude1301@yahoo.co.uk — Mon, 09 Jun 2008 01:00:00 +0100

I really need to vent some steam.

My fiancee is currently divorcing. We have completed his form E weeks ago and whilst waiting for his ex to complete hers she decided to issue financial proceedings. It was her decision to end their marriage. My partner agreed to let her cite his adultery just to speed things up (or so we thought) although he never entered into another relationship until they had seperated. She moved in with her new partner and his kids about a year ago and is not workin [...]

Now I can't even pay the Mortgage

s73serendipitous@aol.co.uk — Thu, 31 Jan 2008 00:00:00 +0100

Well, he has stooped to an all time low now! I checked my bank account on Monday to find that he has not paid me my CM of nearly £600. He paid his share of the mortgage (£266 being 40%) into my account because he can't be bothered to pay it directly to the mortgage company. I have just had to phone the mortgage company to tell them that I cannot make any payment toward the mortgage this month. I need to use his share to feed the children and pay the other bills. My solicitor ha [...]

What a Mess!

fiona.mcnaught@three.co.uk — Tue, 22 Jan 2008 00:00:00 +0100

OK here goes - never done this blogging business before so bear with me! 2nd divorce here - 1st one was relatively painless. It involved a cheating husband of 5 years, no kids just a house. I paid him off £10K (£7K for equity, £3K for furnishings). Got together with current husband far too quickly - like immediately and put the house in joint names. Oh the stupid things you do when you are in love/lust! So 7 years down the line and one son (James 7 yrs) he has run off wit [...]

Suicidal.......By court order

isis06@hotmail.co.uk — Sun, 11 Nov 2007 00:00:00 +0100

Well, what can I say? at my wits end, the courts have brought me to my knees. I had two lovely houses, land a good job, now have nothing....all thanks to the ever so fair courts. My story is; I got married to a filipino 13 years ago and we were ex communicated from my family because they hated her, I secretly made ammends with my (now passed away) parents although they were not happy with our marriage they still spoke to me. My father passed away about a year after we were married and cursed [...]

Decree nisi and another meeting with the solicitor!!

debbiespc.home@virgin.net — Tue, 04 Sep 2007 00:00:00 +0100

I haven't been on for awhile because i was on holiday. In reality i took 2 weeks off,stayed home to rest, and ended up so stressed by the end i have had to go to the doctor to get my meds increased!! I had a letter from my lawyer saying we could apply for the decree nisi even though my husband hadn't returned his court papers, despite the fact they were sent to him at the end of May!! When I asked him he said he thought they were just copies for him to keep!! He also hasn't done anyt [...]

Dad to the rescue

richmondlane@hotmail.com — Mon, 21 May 2007 00:00:00 +0100

Well today my Dad is coming to my rescue by paying off my solicitors bill to stop them from repossessing my house. To be frank i'm a bit embarrased that at the age of 40 I had to ask him for help.

This saga with my solicitor has been running for around a year and [...]