Blog Entries tagged 'birthdays and anniversaries'

Calm before the storm?

matt@chaos.org.uk — Sat, 15 Nov 2008 01:00:00 +0100

Yesterday was my birthday. The first since we separated, and the first time in 17 years I haven't had kids giving me presents or cards. (Apparently they had stuff for me, but weren't allowed to send them.) I really wasn't looking forward to it

As it turned out, it was a thoroughly enjoyable day. I saw my birthday in with my online friends, and woke up to a flurry of good wishes on Facebook, twitter, skype and in my email. Work went [...]

Daisy041

Daisyflower40@hotmail.co.uk — Tue, 04 Nov 2008 01:00:00 +0100

hi Mr Blogman and wikipeeps

thank you for all my birthday wishes, you guys really are the best...

it has been lovely so far....and tonight will be good too.....

anyway just so you know ive changed my name to Daisy041 !!

lol i wonder why..

take care love n hugs

Daisy041

xxxx

God im so down

Daisyflower40@hotmail.co.uk — Sun, 02 Nov 2008 01:00:00 +0100

Hi Mr Blogman and wiki peeps..

i need to blog, desperate to blog........

im so down its unreal....

some of my friends of wiki know its my birthday this tuesday i will be 41...

last night a year ago exactly we had a black tie bash at our house to celebrate my 40th.....its where it all started to go wrong.....

the woman who my husband had an affair with (and is still with her) came to my bday bash and i saw them dancing together and knew then something was up..

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coping with what would have been my anniversary

sarah.wright5@googlemail.com — Fri, 31 Oct 2008 01:00:00 +0100

well yesterday the 30th would have been my 4th wedding anniversary and i thought it was going to be horrendous.

I asked for extra shifts so i didn't have time to be at home pondering, and when i finished work my mates rang me to take me to the pub.

I didn't really want to go but knew they would never give in asking, i'm glad i did i had a good laugh and we toasted the fact that i have a second chance at happiness in my life.

I now know that it wasn't my fault [...]

Third divorce and still confused!!!

emilyjosedgwick@aol.com — Wed, 29 Oct 2008 01:00:00 +0100

Hi Mr Blogman

Realised today that it is my wedding anniversary.........not from my s2bx but from my first husband. I met him not long after moving down to Cornwall from Lancashire, where I left my true love who I thought was then (we ended up married like after 20 odd years apart).

So anyway this would have been our 20th wedding anniversary, had we stayed together...my first husband, who I have 2 lovely children with...a daughter now 21 and a son age 18. &nb [...]

Happy Birthday??

kerrypix@hotmail.com — Sat, 18 Oct 2008 01:00:00 +0100

At last I have got round to writing again. (Oh no I hear you cry!!)

It was my birthday last Wednesday, and what a day it was - I cried and sobbed all morning, then went to see a solicitor in the afternoon. Then I cried again all night. Thought I might have got a text, or even best wishes sent via my daughter, but not a word, and I know he wouldn't have forgotten. Oh well, better that way I tell myself, but I don't believe myself.

Thursday was a strange day, as I work from [...]

One Hell of a weekend

justin2404@gmail.com — Mon, 06 Oct 2008 01:00:00 +0100

And when I say hell I mean hell

Friday - had lunch with some pals - been in the diary for months. Came home and wife gone to pics with daughter (in a mood according to her). She comes home after me and says she's surprised to see me - thought I was meeting someone and was staying overnight - Where the bloody hell did that come from? And had I done so what's the problem - she's asking me for the divorce and she's the one with a boyfriend - anyway - a taste of what&# [...]

Just stuff

Daisyflower40@hotmail.co.uk — Sat, 04 Oct 2008 01:00:00 +0100

Hi Mr Blogman and wiki friends..

a really really hard week....

i seem to have crashed and burned

works been a nightmare so much stuff going on -

grandma's 80th birthday (it would have been last thursday) grandad and grandmas sister have been in tears on the phone to me - mums on holiday (she needs and deserves it but god i miss her) and selfishly wish she was here...

ex and I had a few txty things last sunday re our next mtg - lots of exclamation [...]

Anniversary

caroline.steed@ntlworld.com — Fri, 03 Oct 2008 01:00:00 +0100

Dear Blog

I have been strong all week - haven't needed to write any thing at all! Been getting up early and going to bed early - haven't seen him - been easier, calmer, less stressful. He text one day and I didnt answer.

Today i went to school to pick georgia up and he drove along - said he didn't know i was there to pick her up and i just said yes and wound the window up. could tell he was angry - georgia came out and got in my car! well done girl!!

anniversary time

sarah.wright5@googlemail.com — Thu, 02 Oct 2008 01:00:00 +0100

well this month would have been my 4 year wedding anniversary and to be honest its hard, after being with someone for 10 years and married for 4 takes some getting used to.

i dont miss him, he wanted rid of me, so its his loss

i just feel sad that i may never marry again.

how can I trust myself again?

keily.haltonspeakout@btconnect.com — Thu, 02 Oct 2008 01:00:00 +0100

I thought I would try and put my feelings down in a blog and hopefully see that with time things will improve- i just dont see how right now.

How can I ever trust myself again after falling for such a man? Everybody else in my life saw him for what he was - a con man and a bully. Why didn't I see it?

I can cope with everything that he has thrown at me- i went though my pregnancy alone- dealt with the huge debts he left me with alone-worked 2 jobs to 8 1/2 months an [...]

mixed day - harriet's birthday

caroline.steed@ntlworld.com — Sun, 28 Sep 2008 01:00:00 +0100

Dear Blog Was ok earlier - really ok. After all the upset.

He had a bath and opened my door and I was talking to Sarah on the phone. She makes me feel strong! he asked when harriet was coming home and I said me might as well go now! How rude of me...

Anyway me and georgia pottered about - went to town to get the last few birthday bits for harriet and when we got back he as there talking to oliver and he had cut the grass! although the conversation he had with oliver was all about [...]

Disposable Dad

sean@biggs6.freeserve.co.uk — Thu, 25 Sep 2008 01:00:00 +0100

I just needed to share this with someone.

Today is my daughters birthday and I haven't seen much of her although I'm still in the FMH.

I managed to grab 15 minutes with her this morning by going into work late. She looked pleased with her present and I got a big cuddle and a kiss. So much for both parents to be seen to contribute to a single present.

Tonight I sit in the house alone.

My stbx has decided that she and the children will go to her par [...]

Had bad week last week, so this week looks better.

pinkymalmalred@yahoo.co.uk — Thu, 25 Sep 2008 01:00:00 +0100

last week was awful, I felt so bad I couldn't bare to blog or do anything much,just worked through the deporession I had felt, all mostly brought about by s2bx's 'woman' turning up on my daughters birthday and my daughter spending time with them rather than me on her special day.ruined it somewhat for me.

Well after a few days of depression and self pityI had run out of tears to cry for the time being.I'm sure I will get it again ..just didn't forsee this o [...]

I've come to wish you an unhappy birthday

heath.davis@hotmail.co.uk — Sun, 14 Sep 2008 01:00:00 +0100

Well this morning I did the 'big' thing, and went with my children to get their mother birthday cards/presents.

Boy, it was like eating thistles, as I used to enjoy going with my kids to get her something, but it pained me this morning. I noticed my sons' mood change, he was acting like he was in trouble. He's 10, so I just told him that this was really hard for me, that it was nothing he was doing wrong. I also told him that I was doing this for them [...]

His youngest daughter's 2nd birthday!

s73serendipitous@aol.co.uk — Sat, 13 Sep 2008 01:00:00 +0100

It is my youngest daughter's 2nd birthday today, she was 10 months old when he left the FMH.

I broke down in tears last night; angry and upset for my daughter. The children had a 2 hour contact session with their father last night, as stated in the Defined Contact Order (they get an average of 12 hours a month - his choice).

They had their usual meal of MacDonalds and he gave her the birthday presents he had bought for her. They were from Tesco, obviously picked up whilst doin [...]

Separation just gets stranger and stranger

donna.ogilvie@blueyonder.co.uk — Mon, 08 Sep 2008 01:00:00 +0100

30th birthday went without a hitch. Got asked out by someone at work and had a brilliant drunken night out with my girlies and had a wee drunken snog with someone very nice. Ex brought the kids back early on Sunday morning and we had a little party in the house it was great.

Roll on Monday..................ex starts texting me telling me that he is very sad our marriage is over and he likes to remember the happy times we had together then he drops in the bombshell that if I [...]

16 Again!

steve@rigdens.wanadoo.co.uk — Mon, 08 Sep 2008 01:00:00 +0100

Hi Wikipeeps.

Well, its official, me and him are trying to work things out. Since our wedding anniversary (25 August) we have been talking.... and talking .... and talking! In fact we have probably spoken more in the last two weeks than we have in 2 years.

I can't pretend its easy .... its dammed difficult to hear some of the home truths, and I know he feels the same but he has taken things on the chin, so Ive had to do the same.

We are t [...]

25th wedding anniversary.. its been and gone.

pinkymalmalred@yahoo.co.uk — Thu, 04 Sep 2008 01:00:00 +0100

Well I was up and down moodwise all day.Wanting to cry for what could have been and happy in a way that I wasn't with s2bx.

Mostly felt better when I saw his 'woman' out and was still chuckling, can't believe he would rather be with someone that old and ugly rather than me.She must be like cuddling his mother.. his mum died a few years back and I am sure this is the attraction.

Took my son out for a MC D and thats when we saw her, not that she acknowledged so [...]

birthday blog !

kevin.j.stevens@btinternet.com — Sat, 30 Aug 2008 01:00:00 +0100

a huge THANKYOU to all you luvly people who so kindly wished me birthday greetings last nite .........well this morning lol having a great day had macdonalds brekfast with my daughter and listened to her storys of her holiday and her boyfriend!!!!!! how she missed him so etc...etc its so funny her talking to me as if i dont know what its like !!!!

i did get a slap or two for taking the mickey but only in jest ! oh i feel all warm inside now!!! seeing her was just what i nee [...]