Blog Entries tagged 'being single'

TO DATE OR NOT TO DATE? THAT IS THE QUESTION

boothyboy666@hotmail.co.uk — Tue, 30 Sep 2008 01:00:00 +0100

How do you know when its time to move on and start to do normal things again like dating? Since the age of 13 i have spent 17 years in total - in 2 long relationships (one of which was married) and im only 32. People around me think that i should get back on the horse and 14 weeks on my own is long enough. the thing is i feel that i dont have anything else left to give - my little heart is still broken and i think that if i started dating agai [...]

oh well

kevin.j.stevens@btinternet.com — Mon, 29 Sep 2008 01:00:00 +0100

hi you luvly peeps

explaining .....ok im fed up wiv the ex im fed up wiv chat and fed up wiv trust there is no trust in this world just everyone getting what they can when they can so from now on im on my own and will not trust again this is about me noone else just me i will not hurt anymore end of

big sigh

satoko_t12@hotmail.com — Mon, 29 Sep 2008 01:00:00 +0100

As I mentioned in last entry, I should concentrate on my health and work.

I know this and keep telling me so.

About 3 weeks ago, I met this guy and had drunken nite, we flirted and I knew that it was just a drunken nite.

But after we exchanged a few e-mails, we decided to see sometimes without having any relationship and he suggested to meet up next month.

And today, I sent a short e-mail asking how he was which I've got no reply. And I'm assuming this is [...]

Not doing that well today, either

mneme2006@yahoo.co.uk — Mon, 29 Sep 2008 01:00:00 +0100

I've had the somewhat humiliating experience today of going into the jobcentre first thing, to start all over again with benefits claims, since giving up my job in July. I couldn't cope any more with the stress, and my stbe (a lot sooner than it might have been if he had been nicer) will not support me even though he knows I am not fit to work. He can well afford it; he just doesn't think he should. His answer is of course for me to go home and to try [...]

My first entry

satoko_t12@hotmail.com — Mon, 29 Sep 2008 01:00:00 +0100

To make me concentrate on recovering, I will start this blog.

As ppl here are so nice and experienced something very difficult, I always feel better and feel positive after chatting ppl in here.

At the moment, I'm trying to deal with my depression and do better on my work.

In this summer, I was flirty and I did enojoy summer itself.

Thinking last summer, I cried everyday and felt no hope, I appreciate this.

Now summer's gone and I don't feel like flir [...]

other people's weddings....

evans.serena@gmail.com — Sun, 28 Sep 2008 01:00:00 +0100

been wondering lately if I'll ever enjoy being a wedding guest again? Read a newspaper column last w/end listing 25 things that a pessimist should do before they die - one entry was going to a wedding without thinking the bridge & groom will be divorced within 5 years. Sorry.... not sure I can do.

I am really pleased for all my friends (and there seems to be an awful lot of engagements / weddings at the moment), but I can't help being cynical. Since I [...]

Trying to let go and move on

dawnuk57@yahoo.com — Sat, 27 Sep 2008 01:00:00 +0100

We lived together 3 years, bought a nice house and got married. We didnt have children as i couldn't stay pregnant for long, always miscarried around 8 weeks! Hubby had 4 kids from 1st marriage and we all got on pretty well, they stayed with us some weekends & on holidays, they lived away so contact wasnt constant.

I thought we happy together on the whole, despite his problems with alcohol & pill addiction (codeine dependency).

I encouraged him to leave his employmennt [...]

Im hurting so much

uklass1982@blueyonder.co.uk — Sat, 06 Sep 2008 01:00:00 +0100

I thought id start a blog, to try and get some of this negative energy out of me.

Not feeling right at the moment, im very panicky and my heart wont stop racing.

Ive gone through every emotion under the sun today.

Im so scared of being alone, i just feel so down and lonely and he seems fine, its not fair, why cant he feel some of the pain im feeling, mind you why would he, its him that has told me he doesnt love me and wants to be on his own.

I woke up this morning so [...]

Grey nothing

annpawley@btinternet.com — Fri, 05 Sep 2008 01:00:00 +0100

What is it with these emotions? I have just spent the last few weeks feeling positive about the future, when suddenly today I wake up flat, empty and numb. It is bewildering. There has been no crisis or legal wrangling; no contact problems or emotional manipulation. Just me.

I think I might prefer anger or anxiety (not sure it's true, but today I do think that). You can see what you're up against then; they have substance, something to oppose. This feels like fog closing ro [...]

my 25th wedding anniversary or it would have been..

pinkymalmalred@yahoo.co.uk — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 01:00:00 +0100

well it is now officially my wedding anniversary, as the decree absolute is till not through, so I have decided to blog about how far I feel I have come in the 11 months since we split.

I have gone through turmoil,anger,hurt,rage,pain,sadness,tears, crying myself to sleep,dispair and self doubt I would ever feel right about anything again.

Looking back to this time last year when I would have been sitting in a restaurant,with my nice fancy card with sentiments written in and wonde [...]

What happened last night.

memorcarpediem@yahoo.co.uk — Tue, 02 Sep 2008 01:00:00 +0100

Need to blog and stay close to wiki at the mo, was going to hibernate for a few days but I know that is the worst thing to do.

Yesterday he arrived at 6pm as planned. sat down and I asked for exact details of his current relationship with her and asked where he was at and where he wanted to go with me. He said he is living day to day and no idea where he is at or where he is going. She is a very close friend and it is at the moment non sexual. He couldn't explain how everyone [...]

Ten things I hate about being single........

arniesaccnuson@googlemail.com — Tue, 02 Sep 2008 01:00:00 +0100

#1 Blind dates and internet dating and whilst still thinking of the Office(previous post)

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getting in touch

annpawley@btinternet.com — Mon, 01 Sep 2008 01:00:00 +0100

My new motto ....never turn down an opportunity to connect. (Does not apply to stbx though)

It's funny how sometimes things happen and you just feel the timing is so spot on, it must mean something. So it seemed very fitting when an e-mail from Friends Reunited popped into my inbox today announcing a profile update on an old friend. We were best friends at school, but have really only exchanged Christmas cards since.

The last few days I have been thinking how m [...]

Smiling again

andrewarmstrong82@btinternet.com — Mon, 01 Sep 2008 01:00:00 +0100

The quietman is back almost to his old self. I have been the happiest man on this planet for the last two months. Children have all made contact with me and having been a good boy and kept my mouth shut, courts have backed off. I am so happy. My two sons have become men. My eldest son turns eighteen this month and his seventeen year brother has left home and moved back to Cornwall. I have spoken on the phone to my youngest daughter and although it left me in tears, Iwas crying for joy. I [...]

a lighter note

kevin.j.stevens@btinternet.com — Sun, 31 Aug 2008 01:00:00 +0100

hello wiki's how u doing ???

on the lighter side of life if you give a !!!! my birthday drink ?

i so enjoyed just being ................................free !!

and bieng back out was brilliant ! well i did drink too much and yes i laughed and talked to new people( most were worse the wear for drink i guess ) oh well ?? so scarey seeing such young girls wearing next to nothing with fake tans blonde hair etc sorry ladies if thats offencs [...]

Sunday Morning back to bed

linda.mcdermot@ntlworld.com — Sun, 31 Aug 2008 01:00:00 +0100

Sunday is a luxury now as I get a cup of french coffee pick up the book and head back to the comfort of my bed,after all that I have been through over the years I make time to rest up . I used to head back here on my worst days to my bedroom sometimes I would take a sleeping tablet when I got up and go back to sleep again escaping from this awful nightmare .

In the earlier days the social worker would not ring up she would just turn up out of the blue in the 4 wheel dr [...]

An attack of emotions

s73serendipitous@aol.co.uk — Sat, 30 Aug 2008 01:00:00 +0100

Oh I know I should be in bed at 2.30am but need to clear my mind of some thoughts before even trying to sleep.

I joined facebook yesterday, something a friend of mine has been trying to get me to do for a while. OMG I already have 16 friends. I find myself crying tonight though. Not only have people added me as their friends but they have also sent me messages. People that I lost out of my life the day I said "I Do!"

I never realised until now, the amount of friend [...]

Mother and Wife similarities

andrewcbaillie@msn.com — Fri, 29 Aug 2008 01:00:00 +0100

I'm sure I've heard it said that men marry women that remind them of their mother's. I could be wrong, but somewhere in my sub-concious I've heard that said.

So, what is my mother like?

Well, just about everyone that should be dear to her has walked away from her.

Her husband, her children and her grandchildren. All have either left her or have distanced themselves from her. That's a lot of people, 13 in all.

If I was here, I'd be staring to loo [...]

Where have all the nice women gone?

andrewcbaillie@msn.com — Thu, 28 Aug 2008 01:00:00 +0100

Now that’s a pretty broad question, I know, but you know how it is – you become so caught up in your own circle of family and the problems you have that you forget that there’s a whole world going on outside.

And my thoughts are all influenced by my own situation. And my thoughts aren’t nice.

I read blog comment after blog comment from women who have loved and been wronged. But I’m a bloke that has loved and been wronged. So why didn’t I [...]

Embracing the uptimes

juliet.steven@tiscali.co.uk — Mon, 25 Aug 2008 01:00:00 +0100

Hiya!

Feeling really upbeat today...well...so far, at least - the unpredictability of my moods is quite dizzying, but I am learning to fully embrace the uptimes when they are here!

I went to a street market this morning with my children. It is an annual local event, & past visits have always been rather fraught. My husband used to drag his heels all the way round, muttering under his breath about the 'tat' on sale. Well, today was different! I thoroughly enjoyed, no, e [...]