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			<title>limbo</title>
			<link>http://www.wikivorce.com/divorce/Divorce-Blogs/2021-limbo.html</link>
			<description>&lt;p&gt;Just trying to sort some stuff out in my head as feel going round and round in a circle.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; In the space of 10 weeks i have came from having a happy (thought so) secure family life to now being faced with my home being sold and 9 year old daughter and i having to find somewhere else to live and not knowing if we will have enough money.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Really need to get a lawyer involved here, been to see 1 but was not sure so will when needed find another.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; I work [...]</description>
			<author>288lj@blueyonder.co.uk</author>
			<pubDate>Thu, 07 Aug 2008 01:00:00 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>will he ever know what he has lost?</title>
			<link>http://www.wikivorce.com/divorce/Divorce-Blogs/2020-will-he-ever-know-what-he-has-lost.html</link>
			<description>&lt;p&gt;I dont know why, but whenever my day goes to pot - i write a blog.&amp;nbsp; I just wish i had something good to write, maybe one day.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Went to the solicitors today, he handed me the papers that explained why my husband wants a divorce.&amp;nbsp; Apparently I shout and try and control him.&amp;nbsp; I almost feel bad that he has suffered me for 11 years.&amp;nbsp; I mean, when i think about the times he said to me that i was his honey,&amp;nbsp; and could&amp;#39;nt&amp;nbsp;wait until our children had children and [...]</description>
			<author>boothyboy666@hotmail.co.uk</author>
			<pubDate>Thu, 07 Aug 2008 01:00:00 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Anyone</title>
			<link>http://www.wikivorce.com/divorce/Divorce-Blogs/2019-Anyone.html</link>
			<description>&lt;p&gt;Gareth&amp;#39;s blog Hero to Zero made me think of this.&amp;nbsp; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Its from a book by Linwood Barclay called No Time for Goodbye which I am reading.&amp;nbsp; It&amp;#39;s a letter written by a rebellious student to an imaginary stranger as part of a creative writing class.&amp;nbsp; It makes you think.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&amp;quot; Dear Anyone:&amp;nbsp; this is a letter from one anyone to another anyone, no names required, because nobody knows anybody anyway.&amp;nbsp; Names don&amp;#39;t make a hell&amp;nbsp; of a lot of [...]</description>
			<author>bertie1670@googlemail.com</author>
			<pubDate>Thu, 07 Aug 2008 01:00:00 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>THE RESULTS ARE IN</title>
			<link>http://www.wikivorce.com/divorce/Divorce-Blogs/2018-THE-RESULTS-ARE-IN.html</link>
			<description>&lt;p&gt;I don&amp;#39;t have cancer.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The relief is enormous, I am sitting here bawling my eyes out.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I was so very worried, not just for me but for my family and friends, I had been going through insurances, the property paperwork, thinking of doing everything that might be needed in case they told me the worst.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I was lucky, the specialist was in today and asked me if I was agreeable to him doing the endoscopy, (&amp;nbsp;having the camera through my nose and down my throat) there and then.&lt; [...]</description>
			<author>dawn.hardie@hotmail.com</author>
			<pubDate>Thu, 07 Aug 2008 01:00:00 +0100</pubDate>
		<category>the good times</category>
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			<title>This is the official Wiki song!</title>
			<link>http://www.wikivorce.com/divorce/Divorce-Blogs/2016-This-is-the-official-Wiki-song.html</link>
			<description>&lt;p&gt;Found this on you tube and wanted to share it with you all, its fun, funky has a beat and is called Wiki Wiki so come on wiki peeps lets play this at all our functions.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t2iqXm26dYs&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Saff x&lt;/p&gt;</description>
			<author>emilyjosedgwick@aol.com</author>
			<pubDate>Wed, 06 Aug 2008 01:00:00 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Parents say look at the reason children won't go </title>
			<link>http://www.wikivorce.com/divorce/Divorce-Blogs/2015-Parents-say-look-at-the-reason-children-wont-go.html</link>
			<description>  &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;Tuesday &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;27th July 2004 &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;Coming back to the LG&amp;rsquo;s visit I showed her the holiday video showed her exactly, what C was like a few days earlier prior to admission to hospital. &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;I am accused by my ex-partner of failing to take him to the doctors before going on holiday. As the evidence in paperwor [...]</description>
			<author>linda.mcdermot@ntlworld.com</author>
			<pubDate>Wed, 06 Aug 2008 01:00:00 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>From hero to zero</title>
			<link>http://www.wikivorce.com/divorce/Divorce-Blogs/2013-From-hero-to-zero.html</link>
			<description>&lt;p&gt;have been reading a few blogs and it seems the the time line between hero and zero is very short if you are the man?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;How is that one day you can be everything to to everyone the following day something the cat dragged in?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;My answer ......... the other half!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This is the person that you sold your soul to on the wedding day, would be willing to take a bullet for, the person you thought was your soul mate for ever, the one you hugged when they cried and the one who hugged you.&lt;/ [...]</description>
			<author>garethfun@yahoo.co.uk</author>
			<pubDate>Tue, 05 Aug 2008 01:00:00 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Taking control</title>
			<link>http://www.wikivorce.com/divorce/Divorce-Blogs/2012-Taking-control.html</link>
			<description>&lt;p&gt;I don&amp;#39;t know if my husband will come back. It doesn&amp;#39;t look like it at the moment but I can&amp;#39;t believe that the man I have known inside-out for 11 years would walk out on his family when they need him most. But I have to be prepared for him not coming back as that&amp;#39;s what he&amp;#39;s telling me right now.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;So &amp;nbsp;yesterday I went to see a solicitor. He was rubbish - certainly won&amp;#39;t use him for a divorce battle! (I wanted someone who would be outraged on my behalf!!) [...]</description>
			<author>jenjenks@hotmail.co.uk</author>
			<pubDate>Tue, 05 Aug 2008 01:00:00 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Blondie set my bush on fire!!!</title>
			<link>http://www.wikivorce.com/divorce/Divorce-Blogs/2011-Blondie-set-my-bush-on-fire.html</link>
			<description>&lt;p&gt;Dear Mr Blogman&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;This weekend we had so much fun.&amp;nbsp; Blondie came down to stay with me because she was feeling very depressed and needed desperately to get away.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I met her off the train on sat morning and from then on.....we had such a scream, we cheered each other up.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Started on sex on the beach at about 5pm (cocktails &amp;nbsp;by the way) before anyone thinks we went down to the local beach and attacked the yocal locals lol.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Ate dinner....pan fried duck breast,  [...]</description>
			<author>emilyjosedgwick@aol.com</author>
			<pubDate>Tue, 05 Aug 2008 01:00:00 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Half way point</title>
			<link>http://www.wikivorce.com/divorce/Divorce-Blogs/2010-Half-way-point.html</link>
			<description>&lt;p&gt;Hi all hope everyone is feeling ok&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Got decree nisi today in writing with incorrect date of births ! Either someone cant type or he cant remember mmm no prizes for which one I think. Just the messy finances to sort and the last wait for him to apply for absolute. Sol reckons we get my application ready to send ha ha think he to has sussed out his levelof urgency. strange thing is I dont really give one about the marriage being over its the money! I can hear lots of groans especially from [...]</description>
			<author>liz_gorgeous41@hotmail.co.uk</author>
			<pubDate>Tue, 05 Aug 2008 01:00:00 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>WHAT MORE COULD YOU ASK FOR IN A DAY</title>
			<link>http://www.wikivorce.com/divorce/Divorce-Blogs/2009-WHAT-MORE-COULD-YOU-ASK-FOR-IN-A-DAY.html</link>
			<description>&lt;p&gt;Today was a good day, I had a phone call from the womens refuge asking for help.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;A lovely lady and her 4 children had to leave their home as the husband after being in a&amp;nbsp;car accident had mental problems.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;While she was out, he had gone through each room in the house and ripped, slashed and damaged every piece of furniture, he also slashed all the childrens and her clothes.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;She fled with the children and the clothes they stood up in.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I have had numerous ladies over  [...]</description>
			<author>dawn.hardie@hotmail.com</author>
			<pubDate>Tue, 05 Aug 2008 01:00:00 +0100</pubDate>
		<category>the good times</category>
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			<title>If patience is a virtue ... i'm done for!</title>
			<link>http://www.wikivorce.com/divorce/Divorce-Blogs/2008-If-patience-is-a-virtue-...-im-done-for.html</link>
			<description>&lt;p&gt;After yesterdays glimmer of hope, I think i&amp;#39;ve gone and blown it...... again.&amp;nbsp; How stupid am I!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I tried so hard but this morning after a full ten hours of relentless dreams about a happy ending. I went and bloomin text him, not just once ....&amp;nbsp;three times in a row.!!!!&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; So angry with myself now ... why dont I take my own advice ...Why cant I learn to be patient, back off and just let things happen. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;I think its because everyone, at work, at home and m [...]</description>
			<author>steve@rigdens.wanadoo.co.uk</author>
			<pubDate>Tue, 05 Aug 2008 01:00:00 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Starting 'new life' </title>
			<link>http://www.wikivorce.com/divorce/Divorce-Blogs/2007-Starting-new-life.html</link>
			<description>&amp;nbsp; &lt;p&gt;I was not liking what was happening to me - I could not get my ex out of my head she was always in my thoughts. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Then bang one night last week she said something to me I finally realised that not only did I no longer love this person but I also realised that I would never get back with her. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;We have grown so far apart we have become strangers. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;So I am a single man living on my own; I can do what I want - maybe this has some bene [...]</description>
			<author>greenharte@ntlworld.com</author>
			<pubDate>Tue, 05 Aug 2008 01:00:00 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Waiting to get back in again</title>
			<link>http://www.wikivorce.com/divorce/Divorce-Blogs/2006-Waiting-to-get-back-in-again.html</link>
			<description>  &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;Waiting to get back in again&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;It feels like I have literally been shoved out now .I am waiting to get back in again. I simply do not know what to do with myself in the early days. I just know this, if I have I stay in the house on my own, I will crack up I am crying a lot now.&amp;nbsp; &lt;/p [...]</description>
			<author>linda.mcdermot@ntlworld.com</author>
			<pubDate>Tue, 05 Aug 2008 01:00:00 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>End Days</title>
			<link>http://www.wikivorce.com/divorce/Divorce-Blogs/2005-End-Days.html</link>
			<description>&lt;p&gt;Good morning all you wonderful wikis &lt;img src=&quot;http://www.wikivorce.com/divorce/images/stories/blog_images/17442//icon_blahblah.gif&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; width=&quot;37&quot; height=&quot;15&quot; /&gt;,&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I suppose these are the end days of a 12 year relationship.&amp;nbsp; With him leaving Thursday morning for 2 months to work in another province, that will be the last I will see of the man I shared 12 years of my life with.&amp;nbsp; Lots of tears this morning.&amp;nbsp; Hope you won&amp;#39;t mind seeing me more than ususal i [...]</description>
			<author>margaretmcmenemy@sympatico.ca</author>
			<pubDate>Tue, 05 Aug 2008 01:00:00 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Entry No: 18 I wonder what it is like?</title>
			<link>http://www.wikivorce.com/divorce/Divorce-Blogs/2003-Entry-No-18-I-wonder-what-it-is-like.html</link>
			<description>&lt;p&gt;When I woke up this morning I said to myself,&amp;nbsp; you must remember that dream, I do this often, but never remember the details.&amp;nbsp; I will attempt to capture it here whislt its fresh ish.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;So this is what&amp;nbsp;I dreamt about, I meet a new lady, and she is divorced, she has two children, she lives in a nice house, no mortgage, nice garden, car, furniture, delightful children etc.&amp;nbsp; We get together,&amp;nbsp; and I slot right into her family, in the space that has been left by the per [...]</description>
			<author>andrew.reeves-smith@t-mobile.co.uk</author>
			<pubDate>Tue, 05 Aug 2008 01:00:00 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>My first post</title>
			<link>http://www.wikivorce.com/divorce/Divorce-Blogs/2001-My-first-post-2001.html</link>
			<description>&lt;p&gt;I broke a trust with my wife....I lied to her.&amp;nbsp; I did not at anytime be unfaithful to her.&amp;nbsp; She was and is my only one love.&amp;nbsp; But about two years ago when this happened, our daughter left for university.&amp;nbsp; We started moving apart.&amp;nbsp; I did not give her the attention she needed.&amp;nbsp; She however reconnected with friends from the past (at least two) on line through facebook.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;She developed relationships with them once again.&amp;nbsp; In all this time she thought I guess [...]</description>
			<author>chemtrek1@gmail.com</author>
			<pubDate>Tue, 05 Aug 2008 01:00:00 +0100</pubDate>
		<category>soon to be ex</category>
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			<title>Private Dectective going cold turkey</title>
			<link>http://www.wikivorce.com/divorce/Divorce-Blogs/2002-Private-Dectective-going-cold-turkey.html</link>
			<description>Finally found out how to write a new entry! Thanks everyone for the responses to my obessive private detecting. I knew that all this obessive snooping was unhealthy and was feeling so guilty about it. It helps to know that I am not a nasty person and others have been there.I &amp;#39;ve been to my brothers house for a few days and it was fantastic being in a place where I was hugged and cared about. I have come back yesterday feeling much more positive. I&amp;#39;ve decided to go cold turkey, the only w [...]</description>
			<author>wendy_carterhome@yahoo.co.uk</author>
			<pubDate>Mon, 04 Aug 2008 01:00:00 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>ENOUGH IS ENOUGH</title>
			<link>http://www.wikivorce.com/divorce/Divorce-Blogs/2000-ENOUGH-IS-ENOUGH.html</link>
			<description>&lt;p&gt;Enough is enough, I know you have to face the battles to win the war but sometimes it really is too much.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;After getting over Pippa dying (mostly anyway) I now have another battle to face.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I have had a bad throat infection for over 8 weeks, after seeing&amp;nbsp;the doctors and the pills not doing anything, they have made an emergency appointment for me at the hospital.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;They want to give me a few tests to see if it is cancerous, the doctor told me my chances are good 60/40.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p [...]</description>
			<author>dawn.hardie@hotmail.com</author>
			<pubDate>Mon, 04 Aug 2008 01:00:00 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Golf - a womans guide to the driving range !!!</title>
			<link>http://www.wikivorce.com/divorce/Divorce-Blogs/1999-Golf-a-womans-guide-to-the-driving-range.html</link>
			<description>&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Hi Mr Blogman..&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;ok this is meant to be a funny but serious at the same time....&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; ;-) its golf you know and theres an etiquete (spelt wrong no doubt) of golf !&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;so it was my lesson tonight at the driving range - ok with my friend but as he&amp;#39;s a pro long time golfer best choice..&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;get home from work....hhhhhmmm what to wear ?? well you know these golfers ?? all stripped rupert bear trousers and nice pink or yellow tops !!! oh and not forgetting the bas [...]</description>
			<author>Daisyflower40@hotmail.co.uk</author>
			<pubDate>Mon, 04 Aug 2008 01:00:00 +0100</pubDate>
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