2 years in the making and still awhile to go! I am 30, getting divorced after 4 months of marriage (lived together for 18 months prior to that), no children. Me and new partner (who i call Ravenclaw) have spent many a night, with a glass of wine, reading this site and building ourselves a good case. http://www.wikivorce.com/divorce Sat, 22 Nov 2008 09:25:52 +0100 FeedCreator 1.7.2 http://www.wikivorce.com/divorce/Divorce-Blogs/1401-Chapter-2-Me-Myself-and-the-First-Hearing-a-self-rep-story.html <p>This is going to be a long one....</p><p>Yesterday I had my First Hearing. The previous week I had decided to self-rep as I believed that my solicitor had not got me anywhere. So last week Ravenclaw re-wrote the statement of issues as we believed the ones that had been prepared by the sol did not allow the Judge to fully understand the issues at hand. I had these filed at the court and sent my stbx sol a copy. </p><p>Up to this point my stbx had still not submitted her Form E .</p><p>So I tur [...] jamescawthron@aol.com Wed, 21 May 2008 00:00:00 +0100 letters and paperwork financial disclosure form E dealing with the court dealing with solicitors attending court http://www.wikivorce.com/divorce/Divorce-Blogs/1400-Chapter-1-Long-Long-ago-in-a-galaxy-far-away.html <p>I have now being going through the divorce process for coming up to 2 years (and its still on-going), and I am now at the point were I feel strong and in-control, so thought it was time to share my story. </p><p>I thought the best place to begin was right at the beginning, with an overview of what led me to this place....</p>Summer 03 bought my own property with approx &pound;55k depositSummer 04 started living with stbx in my property (18 months)Winter 06 married (4 months)No children, no co [...] jamescawthron@aol.com Wed, 21 May 2008 00:00:00 +0100 tired and exhausted positive thinking money and finances financial arrangements dealing with emotions anger hate revenge