Blog Entries for 2xfoolish

unpaid bills

nikki.cartwright2@btinternet.com — Tue, 28 Oct 2008 01:00:00 +0100

ive never written so much in my blog. But i am moaning tonite. had another red bill today that my x was supposed to pay. this time it was the council tax. 7days to pay installment or pay it all up front. i am FUMING. last time it was the gas bill. but i am the one who lives in FMH so x sees bills as my responsibilty now even thou he agreed to continue to pay them rather than maintence. when i ask for financial support for my son i get abuse from him cos i have a good job and get pa [...]

moving on (i think)

nikki.cartwright2@btinternet.com — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 01:00:00 +0100

i have a small dilema. my next door neighbour and fab friend joined a dating agency for me and ive been chatting online to a local bloke for a while. he wants to meet up for a pub lunch but i dont know if im ready for that yet. i know im over my x, i know i would like to start dating again, but i hink im still carrying round too much baggage. I lost my mum this year, and i cant honestly say i would be going out with anyone for any reason other than revenge. but if i dont start go [...]

need a mortgage

nikki.cartwright2@btinternet.com — Mon, 20 Oct 2008 01:00:00 +0100

im not really moaning but i didnt realise how increadibly lazy my x was until i asked him to buy me out. after a rather heated row he announced he was sick of me living in his house free of charge and he wanted it back. He also said he would take my son but thata a different story. i told he could have his house back as soon as i found somewhere else for us to live so he could buy me out. this was nearly 3 weeks ago. he has done nothing. i think he was calling my bluff, expecting me [...]

ranting of a mad cow

nikki.cartwright2@btinternet.com — Sun, 03 Aug 2008 01:00:00 +0100

i have never done anything like this before so i will apologise now before i start. On thursday 7Aug it will be 1 year since i kicked my now x husband out for having yet another affair. And to say its been a horrible year is a huge understatement. On friday 8 August i bury my mum, my best friend, my strength, my support for the past 12 months . I also found out that my x never had his x girlfriends name taken off the mortgage, which means i cant buy him out. The house is falli [...]