Blog Entries for BVG

IT's OVER!!!!

greaves_rob@yahoo.com — Sat, 26 Apr 2008 00:00:00 +0100

Its all over at last. I am free of my past marrriage of 33 years.............. The relief, the instant relesase of the stress valve, but the emotions still running riot..........

I went to what was supposed to be a pre trial hearing, ordered by the DJ, to sort out FH dates and statement of issues. ........The DJ turned it int a full blown FDR, with our permission, and retraced all the issues.........He then gave directions on his thoughts of the FH outcome and c [...]

The heart ache comes back

greaves_rob@yahoo.com — Sun, 24 Feb 2008 00:00:00 +0100

Seem to spending ages getting all the evidence together for Final Hearing....... All the memories are coming back, the pain, the hurt, my X's years of adultery...................... I just wonder why she continues to accuse me of so many things, which are completly untrue. Now getting text messages which are hurtfull............. She knows she has caused me to have years of depression and I am still being treated............ I just dont know what to do next.

The Final hearing is ce [...]

Nearly a year gone by!!

greaves_rob@yahoo.com — Tue, 12 Feb 2008 00:00:00 +0100

Well had my first hearing in November 2007.......Lots of accusations made by her and her sol & Barristor........ Counter accusations by myself and sol......DJ gave his directions which amounted to more information to be supplied to each sol.. All over inside 3 hours......Back home just wondering how a wommen I had known for so long could become so bitter, angry and vindictive......Xmas over, having spent a great time with my new partner....Sols begin to exchange even more info......More ac [...]

Divorce

greaves_rob@yahoo.com — Thu, 11 Jan 2007 00:00:00 +0100

Contacted my wife about divorce..... agreed that 2 year separtion and a quikie hearing......Alas no joy she changed her mind will not divorce until finances settled........ Arguments ensued....In the end decided to divorce her through the courts on the grounds of unreasonable behaviour........bit odd that she didn't want me to state adultery........for piece of mind ,mine not hers, sited behaviour....... Papers served and she started sending me cruel text messages about it all....... Decre [...]

A Ray of sunshine

greaves_rob@yahoo.com — Thu, 31 Mar 2005 00:00:00 +0100

During one of the many evenings and nights I spent on the internet and in computing forums, a ray of sunshine came into my life....... I began chatting to a lady about her computer and tried to diagnose and help her resolve the problems...... I gave her my telephone number in case she needed to chat more...... The following week her computer died. I offered to help her, which she accepted..... I drove down to her place (80 miles) with a spare computer just in case......The outcome was, bin the o [...]

The house

greaves_rob@yahoo.com — Thu, 10 Feb 2005 00:00:00 +0100

Agreed eventaully to sell the house... I remained in the house and over 9 months tryed to sell the house.....Subjected to regular telephone and mobile abuse that I was not trying to sell the house...I was so depressed and lonely that I moved out and left it to my wife to move back in and sell the house..... She did not even try to sell the house and took it off the market..... Moved her partner in in January 2006.......The battles started all via solictiors

Gone Again

greaves_rob@yahoo.com — Mon, 10 Jan 2005 00:00:00 +0100

Persuaded my wife to visit her mum & dad over christmas and new year. Great time...... came home 4th January.....back to work......10th January came home, 2 lonely dogs.....Empty house......Short note "had enough".......Devastation!!!!

Back home after 6 months

greaves_rob@yahoo.com — Thu, 11 Mar 2004 00:00:00 +0100

Managed to open a dialogue with my wife.... spent christmas and new year together........She promised to come back at end of rent agrrement on house she was living in..... Back home as promised..... Life looking better......but sensing all not as it should be.!!!!

A Short Note

greaves_rob@yahoo.com — Thu, 18 Sep 2003 00:00:00 +0100

Came home from work..... House sounded empty..... Two dogs looking at me......Found a note...... "You know what this is all about. I have left you. Dont try to contact me.....