Blog Entries for LittleNix

Update on new relationship

LittleNic38@hotmail.com — Sat, 26 Jan 2008 00:00:00 +0100

Hi people Haven't been around much as my life seems to be in a perpetual state of fast forward. Since Christmas, I have sold my house (contracts exchanged yesterday, completion on 31/1), so me and my new man (who I met on this site) have rented a beautiful house together and are moving in over this weekend. Bloody hard work but well worth it for a new start in our own place instead of my house which was my FMH. X2B is behaving and has signed off all the financials so when the house sal [...]

So happy

LittleNic38@hotmail.com — Mon, 03 Dec 2007 00:00:00 +0100

Hi all

Went for the 2nd date (spent the weekend with but let's not split hairs) with my new man and it was absolutely wonderful. Loved up like a teenager, but also incredibly happy and looking forward to the future in a way I haven't done for many years.

Just goes to show that love can happen to anybody at any time - I met my man on this website and couldn't be happier.

I firmly believe that everything happens for a reason and that there is somebody out there f [...]

The true story

LittleNic38@hotmail.com — Wed, 07 Nov 2007 00:00:00 +0100

After reading other peoples blogs and my own again, I felt that I had come across as quite flippant about my seperation and impending divorce.

The truth is when it all happened, I was honestly devastated.

The first I noticed anything was wrong was August bank holiday. He had arranged to go to his Dad's down near Hastings, where his half brother and his girlfriend now live too - on his own without me, which was very unusual- but as I don't really drink and they can drink a [...]

Happy Birthday to me

LittleNic38@hotmail.com — Sun, 04 Nov 2007 00:00:00 +0100

All my friends that I chat to will know I went to a charity ball in Londaon last night and that today is my birthday.

The ball was excellent and raised lots of cash for the childrens charity. At midnight, our table had champagne and they sang happy birthday to me.

10 minutes later I am in the ladies, crying my eyes out - why? Up until then, I had been having a great time. Me and my friend who came with me, bought some (2 bottles) wine and went back to my room where we sat and [...]

a big thank you

LittleNic38@hotmail.com — Thu, 01 Nov 2007 00:00:00 +0100

thank you to Chris 33, Fat Boy (jules) and SK Max for helping me to sort my pc out - really appreciated, thank you

It hit me today - like a ton of bricks!

LittleNic38@hotmail.com — Wed, 31 Oct 2007 00:00:00 +0100

After seeing the financial advisor yesterday to see if I can afford to buy stbx out and then trawling through loads of paperwork etc, I overslept this morning and when I did wake up my first thought was - my god, he's left me. That was it, I could hardly even get out of bed. I phoned work made an excuse about upset tum but I forced myself to get dressed and go to work, even though we work for the same company and I knew it meant I would see him. I cried all the way to work, not so much ab [...]

Oh well S*** happens

LittleNic38@hotmail.com — Fri, 26 Oct 2007 00:00:00 +0100

I have been seperated for 3 weeks today (26/10) and to be totally honest apart from the general stress of seperating, I really don't miss him that much. He left me for a friend but she honestly is one of the ugliest, most unfortunate trolls you would ever have the misfortune to meet. That irks me more than anything. I can only assume that he felt sorry for the miserable walrus but who knows and who cares. I am still young enough I can start again and I fully intend to!