Hi there all, To cut a long story short, got divorced after 19 years, all amicable, lived in house together until i found somewhere to live (another story) six children together 4 under age of 16 when divorced. when ex found out how much benefit money he would lose told the courts and cafcass i was unfit mother and they believed him. have got staying contact for one night each week and every second weekend mon to fri, also holiday contact. ... http://www.wikivorce.com/divorce Sat, 22 Nov 2008 08:22:24 +0100 FeedCreator 1.7.2 http://www.wikivorce.com/divorce/Divorce-Blogs/390-life-goes-on...unfairly.html     To cut a long story short, was divorced 5 years ago, ex found someone else got her pregnant  , moved her in house (as i wouldnt move out). eventually moved out but ex blackmailed 6 children to live with him through cafcass, so couldnt claim half of house. did a diy divorce so no ancillary relief either as didnt know what i was signing. now am struggling finances as not allowed to claim tax credit for children for time that they stay with me each week and have been to [...] cybermum@hotmail.com Mon, 01 Oct 2007 00:00:00 +0100 other