We all have our own different stories to tell, our own heartache to contend with, our own demons to face as well as challenge and our own cross's to bear. Each of us looks at the breakdown in our relationships differently. Those who desert their partners for the OM or OW see things so so differently from those who have been abandoned. Some separations and divorces can be amicable and the original partnership can change and with a little bit of luck and hard work from both sides, friendships and a new type of relationship can be forged and evolve. For some, it is a little blip, an