Hi everyone, I am having a rough time at the moment and finding it difficult to be positive.  My ex has now moved out after a very ugly confrontation last week.  I got angry when I suspected he was having ow in mh and contacted her and him on their mobiles.  i threatened to tell her husband and their work about the affair, after all I thought she was having an easy time of it.  Ex came home from their day out and was vvv angry with me, a scene occurred and the police were called out and my 6 and 21 yr old sons became involved.  He remains angry and blaming of me, completely unremorseful and

Well folks - it's been a long time since I came on the site - so thought I'd let you know how things are. Ex got engaged to significant other over the summer and divorce was finalised in September awaiting Court approval of the Consent Order. That was eventually sorted following a Court hiccup - meaning it took nearer 6 weeks than the 2 we were led to believe. All done and dusted so to speak - and as a bit of a result I managed to keep my pension entirely and got a share of the equity based on a 12 month old valuation - given current state of the market a right result! Ex then got married to

well its been a while since I last posted my blog.I have been slowly getting my life sorted.Been to see how my benefits will be affected should I ever actually get the FH sold .Good news there and was told that mine won't be affected(not means tested) and nor will disabled sons.Also I have taken my council housing application up to date so all that is left to do there is sell the house, then I can start to bid.

I am looking into shared ownership and seeing if I will be able to manage that, else it may look that i will have to use the money raised from the home to rent somewhere,until all the