I am going through a very rough divorce. My x2b of 23 years filed for divorce and it is anything but amicable. To cut a long story short she has fabricated, lied etc about my conduct and has manipulated my 2 daughters to an extent where I am becoming a stranger in the house.Especially the youngest who is 11 years old, now believes the decisions she makes ar her own! And is becoming my x2b's puppet. The oldest who is nearly 17 tries to lock herself away and ignore the situation. X2B refuses mediation and now CAFCASS are involved. My 2 kids have both said they do not want to go to

Well this is day 2. There were some good things that happened today but mostly bad. Over the Christmas period the Wife of my best mate (obviously not best now) called me at home to say she had suspicions about my wife and her husband. At the time I didnt take them seriously and although I wasn't rude to her but I was dismissive. I wasn't rude as I have also known her for 25 years as we went to the same school as her husband. Now that I found out that she was right all along I felt that I should call her to apologize. This led to uncovering even more lies. We ended up going to her house to

I found out at the beginning of December 07 that my wife of 18 years has been having an affair with one of her work colleagues, who she still works with. The affair which lasted roughly 12 months has devastated me, its the worst thing I've ever been through.

I work away from home during the week and get home at weekends. Obviously this is when the affair took place. The pair of them were having sex in our house (he's married) whilst our 8 year old son was asleep. I'm not a violent person and I have met and spoken to him since. I didn't hit him, however I did tell him that he was to stay