I thought i was doing quite well.  Have started a new career 3 months ago, and enjoying it, financially a lot better off too, instead of worrying how to pay the next bill.  Still get down at times about the ex, but more of a reflection then anything else. 

The kids however are really making me feel miserable, sons just turned 15 and daughter will be 14 in a few weeks, yes two teenagers!  Son has been in no end of trouble in school, and i've had to go to a meeting to try and sort things out.  I know hes started smoking and doesnt give two hoots about anything, he's virtually destroyed his new

Kids came back from seeing their dad and were very unhappy.  He's just told them that his woman is having  a baby in a months time.  Youngest in particular is very upset hes 10.  He's not speaking to his dad since hes told him (a week ago) and is very upset.  Just before ex left (2 years ago) i lost a baby when i was 5 months pregnant, ex left a month after i lost him.  In a way this is a reminder of that very sad time.  Eldest (15) doesn't get on with his father, and has been withdrawn since the news of his dads new baby, so ex texts him and says your just like your mum, and its your loss if

Ok so separated from husband for two years, it's been 4 months since i got my decree nisi, so its all done and dusted.

Been on auto pilot since he left, and setting goals to make sure that good for nothing lieing heartless cheat wasn't going to get the best of me, so i started studying, it helped keep my mind occupied, instead of wasting time thinking of someone who was clearly not worth and had moved on with his life.

 Wanted a career, so went for something i wanted to do for a long time, and a year and half later i have got the job, i start in two weeks.  I should be over the moon right?  Im