Got my absolute through on friday 4th September so am now officially divorced. Thought i'd be upset or happy but I really just felt numb. I know now that I can carry on with my life and start a fresh but it will always bother me that I was married for such a short amount of time and divorced so young. But hey I will move onwards and upwards and I will def do it with a smile on my face as I have been doing.

Thanks to everyone for all your support and i'll see some of you sooner rather than later lol

Twigs

Its been a long time since I wrote a blog as I was moving on with my life and been doing very well. More stuff has happened again to make me reflect on what has happened.

It has been nearly 15 months since my husband came home one day from work saying I don't love you anymore, it's over. I just can't believe how much he has managed to do in such a short space of time. For those who don't know me it was a dramatic time with lots of ups and downs. I can honestly say that I am over my husband but I am constantly dealing with the repercussions of his actions. Because we have a 2 and a half year

It was a year yesterday that my ex left me to move on with his life with oter women. It has been a tough year with a definite roller coaster ride of emotions. The first 7 months were intensely difficult but it has got easier over the last 5 with many, many good days rather than bad.

Well yesterday I decided to go speed dating to celebrate my ex leaving, thought it would be a good thing to do instead of sitting at home thinking about what was going on this time last year. I was looking forward to it but was very nervous as I have never been to anything like this before but thought it can't do