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Aug 24
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Hi,
Well seperated from husband for 3 months but still living together, we have 2 business's together but no children. Really believed that when i got married it was for life..how wrong i was...3 years to the day i received a text message! unbelievable, he says that he doesn't know how to make me happy and that i would be happier on my own and there is NOTHING i can do to change his mind...is he seeing someone else!? maybe who knows....in fact do you really ever know anybody.?i'm still very very hurt and upset that he can play with my feelings and throw away my love on a wim, he wants to be friends and living together is a daily nightmare for me...anyone out there ??
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lisajane
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Hi annasmith Only registered on this site yesterday and already don't feel quite so alone. I am still in a pretty bad place myself but you have some good days amongst all the bad. Try and get some legal advice most sols do free half hour. I have been advised time and time again by friends and family who have gone through this to get advice and don't leave it too long. I am going to see a solicitor next week. I understand completely how you are feeling and the world is a scary place right now! Talk to friends, weep and wail, get angry!! It's ok to be angry. Keep in touch Lisajane |
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fitbird
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(((((((((((((annasmith)))))))))) We all here for you, it is a devastating time and a scary place to be. Blog away, chat to others, this place is here for you when you need it. xxx | |
Mog
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annasmith Hello you. Yes, there are lots of us out here and we'll be here for you for as long as you want. I'm a fella and I don't know what happened to my relationship. I am no longer living at home as my wife locked me out. You are going to go through a lot of different emotions and at times you will get low. Wiki is a sanctuary you can come to anytime. There will always be people here to offer help, an ear and friendship. You take care, Mog x |
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annasmith
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Thank you all for your kind words...just when I thought my faith in people were dashed there is light at the end of the tunnel...  |
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marriaa
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Anna, if he is going to go better now than later. Protect your financial position because I think you might be in a vulnerable position. |
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mezzie1
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Anna. I am separated but have to stay in the FMH waiting for rented accommodation. Business partnerships are notorious for turning a couple into business buddies - not ideal! Some kind of mindblock between lovers & partners in business? Not the same as the fantasy of boss/secretary men seem to like! If HE doesn't know how to make you happy, YOU decide what would make you happy and go after it for yourself. |
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Gwendolyn
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I am in same postition as you. It is tough. I got obessed with who was phoning him, e-mails etc and as wise people here pointed out it was damaging me and I try not to do it now. I find it is better to be busy and have started to make new friends. I have joined a social club which has turned out a blessing as we go to theatres etc and they know me and not s2bx. I have recently started to sing that song, found it helps me and drives him mad There's no use in me a-crying I've done everything now I'm sick of trying I've thrown away my nights Wasted all my days over you Now you go your way baby and I'll go mine Now and forever till the end of time I'll find somebody new and baby We'll say we're through And you won't matter anymore |
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Donnylass
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Hi Anna, unfortunately there are a lot of us out here!!! However you have come to the right place for support-the wonderful world of wiki  Coincidentally, I uploaded the Linda Ronstadt version of the Buddy Holly song that Gwendoline is using as her current theme tune, onto my videos yesterday-sing it often enough, and you will believe it. Take care  |
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