When my husband left me last April I still loved him. I grieved for him all Summer, and it was ridiculously painful. In November, I realised with a feeling of liberation that I no longer loved him. And gradually I have found more and more to dislike in the man.

Are these feelings natural? Could they be one of the stages I must get through as I get over his leaving me? I hope so, as then the majority at least of this dislike will fade. But perhaps this is my honest reaction to the man without the rosy lenses of love in my eyes.

I am careful to be as pleasant to him as I can be, not just because

Hi,  havent used tis site for over 2years now, my divorce was finalised yesterday and the out come wasnt good as expected.

Final out come is i have to sell my house to reduce part of the Ex's mortgage. Judge made the order that, i sell my sole house where my son who is 15 resides with me. I have not got a residence order for this but he chose to live with me for past 8months. he has been staying at his mums but very seldom. He lives full time with me but now that will no longer be the case as i have to sell the house.

I was granted 20% stake in her property where she has 2 of sons living with

 "Tonight I wanna Cry" by Keith Urban

Just listened to this song...... What a way to let your tears flow. I'm sure many of you Wiki's will relate to this.

Only listen if you want to relaease and not need cheering up. Sorry that not that helpful, but some of us need to let our feelings out every now and again rather than supress