Another job that is. I was already working mornings, now I am working on another job for 3 hours an afternoon. I can be there to get the kids, and feel much less exposed to my husband's threats of reducing the maintenance payments now I can put some money aside for lean times.

The job is just for three months,  but managing to get it has given me a boost.

I feel as if when I met my husband I was drawn into his gravitational field, and the closer I was drawn to him, the smaller I got. Now, I am pulling away from his gravitaional field, and slowly regaining my normal size. 

Yay!!!!!!!

Hi, our current mortgage is in joint names and so are the title deeds. My husband and I are seperated and we have to apply for a new mortgage deal as our current one expires soon. He claims he can only find a mortgage deal in his name only. Can the finance be done in his name and the title deeds stay in joint

Well its nearly the end of the first month and the situation seems to get worse every day.

The STBx still hasn't found a house and spending money like water. We have just about got rid of all the pets (Some sold). But instead of saving this money she has spent it.

She tried to get tax credits etc but completed the forms wrong and included me on the forms , so she was awarded £0.

Its my mothers 77 birthday next week, so wanted to go a surprise her, we the boys. But the STBx has talked the boys into saying they don't want to go.

Yesterday (Bank holiday Monday), I was flying with the 8 year old. His