Well here we are on monday again. Another week of??? ........ of what I'm not so sure. I've just spoken to my sol and the value is in for the business. Well its worked out on the STBX wages, which is a third of what the business was originally valued at a year ago. And I am entitled to half of that!! Yeah right!! So now there will be lots of tooing and froing to see if an offer is going to be made. If not its the High Court in Edinburgh for us!!!! More money!! When will this end? I spoke to my sol before and I now owe about £15k which is needed by the end of the financial year!! Where do I

Well my weekend was a nightmare. The mork meeting on Friday meant I did not get home til 8.30 and I am meant to collect kids at 5.30. More trouble.

Well I had a lovely time with kids as used the time to ask them about the weekend arrangements the ex wants to vary. Basically she wants me to have them 5pm on Friday - 5pm Sunday every other weekend. Well I dont and the kids say they dont either so it will stay as it is, and all the flexability we have had goes with it.

So when I dropped them home at 1.30 ( wifes request due to family party ) We then discussed the proposed change but I got

I just wanted to say a big thank you to everyone who has given advise and kind words over the months -

Nothing in my situation has changed much - still in limbo  - (Elle has told me i need to take charge of situation) and i am going to try - whether i suceed will be a different matter but i hope so.

I know some of the people on here are in far worse situations and my heart really goes out to you guys -

Some days i feel a million questions are going through my mind and it seems to take over my life - i come on here and post a question in the forum (and probably i have asked the same question a