As my title says STBX left last night to move in with her brother (my best mate!) and there were no tears from the pair of us so that is something positive. I'll don't think Ill miss her (he thinks!) and I need to start planning my way  forwards. I've been doing really well although STBX has said I must stop counselling now as we can't afford it as she is now needing the money to rent. As she is the bread winner I cannot say or do anything. If anything I feel I've been let down by the NHS as I am still on the waiting list to see someone. I told the doctor back at the beginning of December how

I believe it was Thomas Edison who said “I haven’t failed 10,000 times, I just haven’t found the way that works yet.”

What would you do if you knew you could never make a wrong decision? How would it affect the way you lived the rest of your life knowing with certainty that every decision you made from now on would be exactly right for you?

Fact is there are no wrong decisions, as you go through divorce you may be questioning some of the decisions that got you here. The truth is that any other choice you may have made would just have taken you somewhere else. Who can say whether that would be a better place than here? It would just be somewhere else and there is no way of knowing where or what the journey