This week has been a major turning point for a number of reasons
Second councelling session on Wednesday, again the councellor could not get a word in, my overall tone was totally different from the first session, the first was very much an introduction to events that had led up to the split, a self analysis of how I thought these events had affected and contributed the split, considering the perspective of both sides, very much soul serching. Wednesdays session was very much "where am I going now how much will recent events affect me achieving that (very little now).
So I am a cured man,