Hi all,

I'm a newbie on here and i think i need a help.Well,i really don't know where to start although i made a lot of searches on wiki.

Me and my fiance are engaged for 6 months.She was married and has a daughter aged 8.Now,she's divorced(as we think) and her decree nisi was granted on 18th August 2008 but she never applied for decree absolute after the date the decree nisi announced.I really don't know about the divorce process in the uk but i wanted to give her a hand on this painful timescale.She had courts ongoing and recently,as i know,the final ancillary relief and financial issues

Well since my last blog a few things have happened.

I had a fab holiday with my son for two weeks after which he went away with his mum for 10 days. I did not this year get a moan about all the things I had done wrong whilst he was with me - had a few complaints before I went.

 I spoke to my solicitor who moved my court date until 30/9 and he seems lesss concerned than me as it is scheduled for only 10 minutes. He thinks it will just be to confirm no undue influence but did say he could not guarantee there was more to it than that. I have spoken to STBX who confirmed she has written to the

So one year has gone by.  It had to be the most shocking year ever.  To be abandoned is so hurtful, so painful.  To be emotiionally abused scars you.  Sure you find the strength to carry on but you'll never be the same after the pain.  You can't look at love with the same pure naive eyes you once did.  If one ever gets lucky enough to experience a love again it isn't and will never be the same.  Perhaps its better to be a realist than a dreamer.  Now that you've gone through what you thought was impossible you'll be prepared next time rather than surprised.  We can develop our thick skins and