I've decided I want to divorce my husband. Which woule you advise I do first, tell him or see a solicitor and why?
Thanks
Freda

hi freda,
welcome to wiki
I do not know your situation .If you are certain that is what you want to do I will give him an explanation to why and when you are going to do it.It is such a painful experience ,it will be even for you.so to have it just sprung on you is not very nice.Start the proper way you might be able to settle everything amicably.Give him time to adjust to the idea.Both of you will go through a lot of emotion and anger will be one of them,so be prepared.
good luck
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