Hi DL
Thanks for your offer of help.
The problem is I don't know which of the principles he will be relying upon !
His Form E, (what there was of it handed to me just before we went in ) states he wants a clean break order and an equal share in the proceeds of the sale of the matrimonial home which was sold 3 years ago once sep agreement signed.
The judge ran the first appointment from my Statement of Issues which stated that there was no reason to depart from the Separation Agreement of 3 years previous (clarifying legal advice, disclosure, signed witnessed, and no duress)
His (young nervous ) solicitor admitted to the judge she had only become aware of the agreement 10 mins ago......
(She said to me before we went in - "he hasn't signed it" I gave her a signed copy, she said "He hasn't filed it with us" to which I replied 'not my problem'...)
STBX said the separation agreement 'was unfair', at which point he was asked by the judge if he had taken legal advice...
The sep agreement was drawn up by his solicitors mother, who heads the family dept....
The judge laughed and said that if he was saying he had been given bad advice that that would be a very difficult and costly route to go down...
It would have been hilarious if it had been someone elses case, but it was mine !!
(The court usher informed me that my particular judge was VERY pedantic but that I shouldn't let it worry me )
The 14 point directions from the court begin with;
AND there being a dispute between the parties as to whether an agreement between them should be taken into account as relevant conduct:
THE COURT DIRECTS that:
1. The parties make standard disclosure by delivering to each other by (date) copies of all relevant documents, waiving privilege attaching to the advice given by solicitors in relation to the agreement.Further down it says we may not rely on any evidence (at the hearing which will be months away) not submitted, so I don't want to miss anything but because it's so wide open I'm not too sure what to get.
The judge suggested that she (his sol) take advice from barristers, that her sworn statement would need to be based on Edgar Principles and that he would consider making an order for costs later on.
He didn't have the same conversation with me

but rightly or wrongly I came away feeling confident because he addressed the issues I wanted.
So I intend, unless anyone tells me otherwise, to get copies of documents from the solicitor that acted for me - there won't be much. And I shall ask the person who witnessed my signature to write something (not sure what yet) and then give them to his sol.
He then has to serve a sworn statement, after which, I get the opportunity to reply some weeks later.
My biggest gripe with all of this is that it's going to take at least until November before we even get given a date for hearing and if his sol 'had been round the block a few times' she would be telling him he had no case whatsoever thus saving HIS money and ALL MY TIME at Litigants rates of £9.50 per hour glued to wiki !! (The dust is mounting up as well as several episodes of Eastenders..

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Any thoughts
poppy
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