Young Again ....

To me it simply means ... act in haste repent at leisure!!

Like I said I think the best revenge is moving onwards and upwards..

Being premeditated vindictive and malicious is something I will leave to my ex's conscience.

Revenge consists primarily of retaliation against a person to a perceived wrongdoing. Although many aspects of revenge resemble or echo the concept of justice, revenge usually has a more injurious than harmonious goal. The goal of revenge usually consists of forcing the perceived wrongdoer to suffer the same pain that was originally inflicted.


In the context of this thread revenge is a glove wiped on a dogs bum in response to AD over the top na i dont think so

Hi all

I have been so very angry at Ex over the past few years.
I have bitten my tongue.
I have not told "my truth".
I have been hurt by "his truth" being thrown back at me constantly from people who hardly know me.

My anger eats me up at times because of the unfairness of it.

BUT I think that revenge would come back to bite me and I dont really know if it would help anyway.

I would really love to shout and scream at him to get the anger out of my system but I cant see that happening.

So I suppose as others have said the best plan of action is to make a happy life, because bitterness and anger cant make me happy.

Some very funny stories though.

Tinny

Hmmmm.........I've thought long and hard about this one as i could stitch my stbx up big ­style­ and she would lose everything like i had, up to and including her job and a stint in prison.

I got one scentance to sum this thread up.

Beware of the karmic boomerang.

M x

Matt,

I absolutely loved your quote

Beware the Karmic Boomerang.

Exactly, I think that's why so many of us found the stories of revenge funny, yes it's crossed our minds ot avenge our selves of the not quite so perceived anger & hurt of betrayal, the lies, the adultery etc. Those really happened to many on here nothing perceived about it.

However, no-one would go to extremes but in their heads would love to:-

Piss in the best malt whiskey
Give away valuable Burgundy
Wipe the dogs bum with mistresses gloves
Cut the sleeves off expensive suits
Hide the passport
Deface the passport (Distinguishing marks - SMALL PENIS)
Put cress on the carpet & water when ex is away 4 2 weeks
Super glue the doors shut
Clog up the hall with junk mail
Send e-mails to office with sordid details
Spray paint a house with slogans
Chop down prize orchids

All heard the stories, but how many have done them? Most are just that stories, to cheer people up to commit revenge vicariously. Best revenge, do it through others stories & laugh.

Worst revenge, do it yourself & get caught! Quid Pro Quo or something

I did this just a couple of weeks ago......

My husband left me suddenly and told everyone we knew that he had gone because I nagged him all the the time, I suspected he was involved with someone else. I knew the password to his email and read through all the emails that had been sent between him and his girlfriend. I was obviously devastated and angry because there was a lot of lies written about me and the children in the emails which he had sent to her. I emailed everyone in his address book from his email address so that it read like a confession from him. I was just so angry that he had made me out to be the bad one when all the time he had been cheating on me. I have heard since that a lot of people have turned their backs on him which makes me feel quite good. I am not proud of what I did but it did make me feel good and the way I see it he got off lightly!!!!

Hi mummof2 welcome to Wiki, this thread has been going for a long time and as you can see lots of different views on it, which I think is good, as we are not all the same.
Anger and hurt is unpredictable, you are no different to any one else. I think admitting what you have done is quite brave, because we could keep quiet and make ourselves out to look so above it all. But we are not. Dont worry, it will all be forgotten by everyone. You are not the only one, even 'celebrities' do things like it and they dont have to worry about money, and their future. And...... even if it has not been done, it must be thought about.
You must have been hurt and I hope that Wiki will help you get through all the problems you might face. The people on here are second to none, they are brilliant and they really do care.
Zara