I have read this through time and time to see if I am really a disgusting horrible person. Well in the eyes of some, perhaps I am. But if you had the chance to talk to all that know me, it would be a different story, I have always made the time to be the 'shoulder' always determined never to judge and had many colleagues at work come to me for advice.
What I did was, ok, horrid, but my post justifies that.
We are not all the same, depending on our circumstances,#
whether you are with the cheater etc.
I am probably one of the most forgiving mums, wife, whatever you want to call me. I think this thread has enlightened, fears, upset, anger and every emotion you could think possible. What a triumph that Wiki has let us all air our feelings, whether good or bad, whatever your stance. Good for Wiki. Some do things and never tell anyone because they are embarassed. So what.
If it was not for sites like this we would be sat at home, scared, insular, thinking we were actually MAD.
I will listen to anyone, I really do not judge people.
It is a complex mixture that makes us all who we are.
So what if we have done something a bit 'naughty' it really does not matter. I do find it strange when some can absolve themselves from all nasty thoughts, they must have been in the better and more profitable half of the break up. But there again does it matter. Well done Wiki. Free speech and feelings boy does that get 'it out of you'
